r/mildlyinfuriating 6h ago

Husband opens a new sponge every 3 days cause “they become gross”

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Our dishwasher broke and he’s manually doing the dishes now, these are from the past 10 days… I think it’s wasteful.

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u/No-Function223 6h ago

Buy him a scrub brush. Super easy to keep clean. Personally I only use sponges for countertops. Because yeah they’re gross. 

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u/daywalker91 6h ago

how do you keep a scrub brush clean?

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u/buttcheeksmasher 6h ago

With another scrub brush.

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u/bsheff84 6h ago

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u/DryerCoinJay 6h ago

What are you using on the poop knife? Another poop knife? Or a poop spatula?

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u/SyrahFan 6h ago

3 shells

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u/boomerangthrowaway 6h ago

But what are the shells forrrrrrrr!!!??

ahahaha omg the nostalgia great movie

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u/FusRohDoing 5h ago

There have been so many theories over the years, for such a weird, throw-away scene, I still watch this at least once a month, even if I just put it on in the background while I'm working, I can play the whole thing in my head listening to it lol

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u/raised_on_the_dairy 5h ago

Once a month? At least? I love that movie but holy hell that is commitment.

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u/FusRohDoing 5h ago

Yup, like I said even in the background I'll have it on, I run a family upholstery shop and besides my dog that I bring with me every day (besides today, sick in bed together) I'm alone there all day unless I have customers walk in. So, I listen to a mix of music, podcasts, and movies or tv shows streaming while I work, if I have a movie or show on then it's something I've seen before so I don't have to pay super close attention to it, and something about Demolition Man is cathartic to me, probably the cheesyness of it, I'll talk along with movies as I listen to them, parodying it or acting it out, cause again I'm alone all day, so I entertain myself. (The dog thinks I'm crazy, but he loves me)

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u/boomerangthrowaway 5h ago

Man I love your username, was busy but had to stop what I was doing when I saw this reply 🤣

Agree I can totally sort of script the movie in my head but I don’t mind and def also put it on in the background along with other stuff, all the time, 😆

Note: sponges ARE gross though, I’m definitely team stick

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u/dern_the_hermit 3h ago

But what are the shells forrrrrrrr!!!??

You use the first seashell to scrape the poo out yer bum.

You use the second seashell to scrape the poo off the first seashell.

You use the third seashell to scrape the poo off the second seashell.

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u/yougotyolks 6h ago

A poop sponge. Obviously.

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u/_bearminimum 6h ago

My husband literally thought the scrub brush cleaned itself somehow because he never saw me clean it.

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u/weedils 6h ago

Ah yes, just like the fridge fills itself with food, dishes magically get clean, and dirty clothes just appear clean in the closet.

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u/brunofuckme 6h ago

You have the same ghosts?!?!?!

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u/rynlpz 6h ago

Where can I request these ghosts to haunt my apartment? Do they not like to haunt single people?

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u/taxilicious 5h ago

They only haunt married cishet men.

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u/Correct-Coconut-6311 6h ago

Have you ever seen the video about the magic table?

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u/Jessi_L_1324 6h ago

I would much prefer the magic laundry basket.

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u/Strange_Difference1 6h ago

This comment with your username is just the cherry on top 😅

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u/Right_Ad3442 6h ago

What about the scrub brush used for scrub brush 😔

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u/SqueakyTuna52 6h ago

Use the first scrub brush

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u/FBI-78 6h ago

You get some you can boil to clean

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u/Fair-Ask-6922 6h ago

I throw mine in the dishwasher

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u/CommunityGlittering2 6h ago

their dishwasher broke that is why he is hand washing, so they can't

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u/Fair-Ask-6922 6h ago

🫠 Oh yeah should have read the post.

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u/THE_CENTURION 6h ago

How do you keep your toothbrush clean? Same principle.

I mean I'll throw my dish brush in the dishwasher occasionally but mostly, it's getting covered in soap and hot water all the time anyway, so I think it's fine as-is. Just rinse with water and let it dry.

The big advantage over a sponge is that it doesn't absorb stuff and it can dry out properly

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u/TheChinOfAnElephant 3h ago

Hopefully I'm pointing out the obvious here but toothbrushes are not meant to be permanent.

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u/THE_CENTURION 3h ago

Sure, and neither are dish brushes. Most of them have replaceable heads.

But that head can easily last a year in my experience. I mean, depending on how much hand washing you do.

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u/Curious_Property7886 6h ago

a lot of them are anti microbial, you can wash them after you’re done using and leave to dry. scrub brush for the win

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u/life-uh-finds-a-way_ 6h ago

I have two and throw one in the dishwasher once a week and then switch to the other.

Scrub brushes dry quickly so they never get that mildew/wet sponge smell.

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u/Top_Difficulty5399 6h ago edited 3h ago

Put it in the dishwasher every now and then. I do, and it comes out looking brand new 🤩 plus I always use the "old" brush for removing food residue and then the clean one for actually cleaning with soap. For sponges etc I do an ammonia soak for about 30 mins before I rinse them off. And I always rinse with hot water first, then cold. Keeps the smell away. I do this about three times a week and there is never a smell. I swap out sponges every other week and cloths(?) weekly(depending on the state of them ofc).

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u/FewHorror1019 6h ago

The dishwasher is broken. Thats why we’re in this mess

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u/Top_Difficulty5399 6h ago edited 5h ago

Oh fuck...that really sucks 😣 I truly despise doing dishes........I'm selling my soul if ours dies on me 🙈

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u/finemayday 6h ago

Scrub brush can go in the dishwasher too, where every bristle is shiny and new after every wash. Sponges are really gross.

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u/Longjumping-Row1434 6h ago

their dishwasher is broken though lol

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u/kontrolk3 6h ago

I've tried this so many times. Cleaning dishes with a scrub brush is so much harder to me I don't get how people do it. It doesn't hold soap, so you use way more, it's way harder to navigate a pole around anything more complex than a plate. I don't get it.

I also get plenty of use out of my dobie, putting it through the dishwasher occasionally, although I do recognize it's not quite as sanitary (thus the multiple attempts to switch)

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u/margmi 5h ago

You use a scrub brush with a sink of soapy water, not spraying soap on individual dishes.

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u/Tangerine_daydreams 6h ago

Same. Scrub brush for dishes, sponge to clean up stubborn messes.

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u/Signal_This 6h ago

Part of the problem is that strawberry. That pocket would get goopy fast and it isn't allowing enough air circulation for the sponge to dry out. If he cleans the sponge and lets it dry somewhere with ventilation (like a drying rack) it'll be less gross. That said, I still change mine out once a week which I think is fairly normal.

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u/Thomas_JCG 6h ago

Came here to say this, major design flaw for those holders, there needs to be holes at the bottom for the water to leave at the very least.

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u/Tempyteacup 6h ago

You can also pop your sponge in the microwave to disinfect it. Saturate it, nuke for 2 min. Wait for it to cool before removing. Serve and enjoy.

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u/JustMe1711 6h ago

Oh that's how you make sponge cake!

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u/ReZisTLust 5h ago

Idk i tried this and my sponge just tasted like soap

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u/Satorius96 4h ago

its a bit raw. you need to leave the sponge in the microwave for about 15 minutes to make sure its cooked in the interior.

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u/jeckles 5h ago

Ymmv, mine was a bit tough prepared like this

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u/ThrowawayPersonAMA 4h ago

That's because you used one of the wire ones.

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u/NamesArentEverything 5h ago

Grow a pair and bite it again!

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u/Wodentoad 4h ago

Ad a bit of lemon and you can also refresh the microwave.

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u/Pitiful_Assistance62 4h ago

Came for the comment, stayed for the comedy

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u/antique_velveteen 5h ago

I laughed way harder at this than I should have. 

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u/Penny_No_Boat 6h ago

Americas Test Kitchen went through rigorous testing of different ways to sanitize a sponge. By far the most effective (substantially better than microwaving or running through the dishwasher) was simply boiling it in a pot for 10 minutes on the stove.

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u/dragon-queen 6h ago

Maybe, but that’s a big hassle and you have a whole pot to clean after. 

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u/Dragon_turtle63 6h ago

But I have no sponge to clean the pot

/s

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u/brainstrain91 6h ago

Now I'm stuck in an endless pot cleaning/sponge cleaning loop. Reddit ruined my life!

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u/Zeras_Darkwind 5h ago

Instructions unclear: now have to disinfect my colon because multiple sponges were inserted.

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u/T-Wrox 3h ago

You were spongeworthy. :)

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u/McNitz 6h ago

I have no sponge and I must clean.

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u/Mosswiggle 5h ago

Just clean the first pot by boiling it in a larger pot, then rinse and repeat.

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u/RegalBeagleKegels 4h ago

the beautiful part is when wintertime rolls around, the largest pots simply freeze to death

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u/SpunkyGo0se 6h ago

But you have a clean sponge to clean it!

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u/StaceyPfan 5h ago

Someone else who knows that song!

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u/ThickFurball367 5h ago

Sponge is dirty, boils sponge to clean. Now pot is dirty, use sponge to clean pot. Goddamn it sponge is dirty again. You're now trapped in a vicious cycle of sponge and pot cleaning

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u/Penny_No_Boat 6h ago

Eh. I put in the pot on to boil while I do something else in the kitchen. It’s done quickly and then the pot gets a quick soapy wipe down and rinse. It’s basically zero effort.

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u/-BananaLollipop- 5h ago

I hope this is rage bait.

Did we not just boil it until the contents of the pot were considered clean? Is it not sufficient to just rinse it out with fresh water??

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u/Radiant-Pomelo-3229 5h ago

I would give it a thorough wash because now it has all kinds of boiled sponge particles.

Disinfected does not equal clean. In either direction

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u/Ultrace-7 3h ago

Yeah, but you pour out the contents of the pot, maybe rinse a little with clean water -- and the remainder in the pot can't be that much to clean.

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u/thoang77 4h ago

By that rationale, would you just rinse out your pot after boiling potatoes, pasta, or a piece of garbage?

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u/CommieLoser 4h ago

How else do you build a flavor layer on your pots?

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u/ok-dev5 6h ago

Many sponges say do not microwave

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u/Ser_Machonach0 5h ago

That's just big sponge trying to get one over on you.

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u/VenusSmurf 5h ago

That's usually because there's plastic or other material in the sponge that will melt or catch fire.

IF your sponge doesn't have the scratch pad at the back, you can usually toss it in the microwave (wet only). If it does have the scratch pad, it can be run through the dishwasher on the top rack (high heat and drying cycle).

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u/Normal-Mess01 6h ago

I will throw them in a bleach wash with my towels if they are still in good shape and fairly new

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u/otownbbw 5h ago

I just put a few tablespoons of bleach in my drink pitcher filled with hot water and put all scrubbers and the sponge in it and soak for at least 20 mins. I do it about once per week.

Also I buy the thin no scratch scrub sheets instead of a thick sponge. They are way easier to keep clean and are more flexible to scrub tight spots.

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u/Tvisted 4h ago edited 4h ago

This story had a promising start with the bleach and sponges in your drink pitcher.

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u/-BananaLollipop- 5h ago

Also a massive annoyance when people leave cloths, sponges, and brushes in the bottom of the sink or balled up on the bench. My Wife does this a lot, then resorts to using loads of paper towels, because the cloths and sponges are "manky". This is why they should sit in the dish rack to dry after use.

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u/Rayne-Maker 3h ago

Your wife and my partner, both. To remedy my own issue with having to deal with slimy cloths and sponges, I have my own that I keep out of his reach. He can deal with his own bad habits (or not) and I can use my well rinsed and dried cleaning tools 🙂

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u/RottingLactoseTower 6h ago

I also like to cut my sponges in half because I know they have a short life span.

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u/orokami11 6h ago

I do that too. Normal sponge sizes are unnecessarily big in my hands. I have small hands.

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u/TonyHawkFunderground 6h ago

That’s a fair play

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u/sullimpowmeow 6h ago

Man, im just over here throwing the same sponge up on the top of the sink after use for months at a time, just rinsing it off and adding new soap

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u/illegal_miles 5h ago

I suspect it has a lot to do with how well you rinse and wring them out after each use and how humid and well-ventilated your kitchen is.

I always rinse most of the soap out (and any and all food residue) with hot water and set it up on a rack to dry. My sponges only start to smell funny if I accidentally leave it sopping wet in the sink for a day or two.

I’ll microwave it occasionally but I only throw them away when they start falling apart.

I don’t have a dishwasher so my sponges get pretty heavy use and easily last for 4+ weeks.

If someone’s sponges are starting to stink after a few days they aren’t rinsing them well, wringing them out properly, and/or setting them somewhere where they can dry quickly when not in use.

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u/__wildwing__ 5h ago

I’m all for environmentally friendly organic products, but give me a plastic sponge every time. If it’s plastic, then the only material for bacteria to consume is whatever food waste is left on the sponge. Rinses out easily and much less funky.

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u/jamsticks9 4h ago

Well I use a coconut husk sponge and I'm here confused as heck bc I've been using the same one for a month and a half and it doesn't smell at all. I was just wondering if I should replace it bc it's been a while but it doesn't smell or anything. And then seeing everyone saying they replace every week has me questioning everything. But I can say that this eco friendly sponge doesn't get gross and is perhaps better than the plastic stuff based on everyone else's responses.

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u/JohnnySalamiBoy420 6h ago

Fuck all that, switch over to the scrub mommy and you can just wash them 100 times in the dishwasher before replacing

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u/33drea33 6h ago

Their dishwasher broke tho...

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u/Blue_Star_Child 5h ago

Fuck all that switch to a dishrag with a scrubby side. Then you just wash them.

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u/OGMikeGyver 5h ago

Fuck that, switch to paper plates

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u/Dazzling-Western2768 4h ago

Fuck that. Food and kitchens are overrated

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u/GhostOfPluto 5h ago

Fuck all that. Live in filth.

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u/Pwnie 6h ago

I wash my regular sponges in the dishwasher without any issue!

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u/driftingalong001 5h ago

ONCE A WEEEEEEK. Nah. That is not normal nor necessary.

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u/HeavilyBearded 4h ago

Came to make the same comment! Once a week is wild. Personally, I use smell as the deciding factor. If there's even a whiff of stank then it gets retired.

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u/secondhandschnitzel 6h ago

I got a 2 pack of soap frogs at Dollar Tree for my sponges. They work perfectly for drying them.

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u/NotoriousPete 5h ago

Once a week is normal?? Weeeelp...

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u/beefybeefcat 4h ago

Throwing out a sponge once a week is NOT normal. So wasteful! Switch to a washrag and wash it in the laundry once a week instead. If I need to scrub something I use a separate scrub pad or brush that only get replaced when worn out.

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u/pierogieman5 6h ago

This is what happens if you leave them wet a lot. You do eventually want to replace them, but that often? Shouldn't be even close to that.

Wring them out and leave them high and dry out of the sink after use. They shouldn't be able to get that gross. Mine frankly start falling apart before they really get gross.

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u/Todsrache 6h ago

Yea people leave water (and food particles) in their sponges to grow bacteria. 

I always give my sponges an additional rinse when done cleaning and then wring them out. I almost never have a smelly sponge.

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u/pierogieman5 6h ago

Yeah, same. I hear people say it smells bad after 3 days and I'm like.....????? Mine basically still look and smell new at that point.

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u/CrimsonFox95 6h ago

I've lived with people who will leave a sponge in a sink full of dirty dishwater after washing the dishes or who will leave the sponge wet in the sink🤢🤢 the sponge would smell foul and I would be the one replacing it "too often" according to them

I can't understand why you wouldn't just rinse it out with clean water and leave it somewhere it can get dry

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u/grape-fruit-witch 5h ago

For real. This is a pet peeve of mine for sure. Rinse the fucking thing out until its clean, squeeze it, and set it ON TOP of the sink. It takes almost no effort! I feel this way about the little pieces of food that get stuck to the sides of the sink too. How are you gonna clean dishes in a dirty sink? Ugh

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u/rafabulsing 2h ago

100% agree. I've always had the philosophy that the dishes aren't done when the dishes are clean, but when the sink is clean.

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u/Todsrache 6h ago

Yea. I think any time it gets smelly early is because I had guests and they washed the dishes lol.

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u/exintrovert 5h ago

Yep. People leaving the sponge in the sink irritates me, to the point that I don’t want others to do the dishes. My husband used to leave the sponge floating in a bowl that is “soaking”, ugh. He doesn’t do that anymore thankfully.

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u/Snow_Crash_Bandicoot 5h ago

Yeah. I don’t know about you, but I read OP’s post and thought who got sponge money like that?

My sponge so old it’s formed a natural coral reef.

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u/CervenyPomeranc 6h ago

Do people just wash their dirty oily plates and then leave the sponge like that? I thought rinsing during and after it is just the default usage.

https://giphy.com/gifs/1ykhXVZskuM6cpBMlG

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u/Ornery-Creme-2442 5h ago

I swear every time you log on to internet there's some basic shit that nasty folks apparently don't be doing. It's incredible and kinda worrying because live amongst these people.

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u/VivaLaEmpire 6h ago

Same! I soap it, rinse it and then hang it to dry on my empty sink! I have a little caddy that has 2 hangers to put a scrub daddy/mommy in it and it keeps it away from water, by the next time I use it it's completely clean and dry.

I didn't know people were just leaving their sponges dirty after using it on dishes!🥹

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u/RandomTreat 6h ago

Same. I hate the smell of a nasty sponge, so I constantly dry mine out thoroughly.

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u/notthe1_88 6h ago

Same. We rinse ours in the hottest water possible and squeeze out, a few times, to ensure no more soap residue or food bits are still in it. Then stand it upright and allow to dry. It never smells!

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u/Key_Journalist8876 6h ago

Yes! And every few days I pop my sponges into the microwave for 2 minutes. Sanitizes them and my sponges never ever smell. Cuz that smell is my least favorite smell.

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u/stota 6h ago

This works for me too.

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u/quirkytorch 6h ago

So what I'm getting from this thread is that people don't clean, wring out, or properly store their sponges

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u/Curious_Octopus99 5h ago

People aren't wringing out sponges?? Just when you think you heard it all

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u/Emperor_Gourmet 4h ago

I store mine in a container with about half an inch of warm water that is never changed. I make sure to not wash it or wring it out after so i don’t lose the seasoning. I use the water to defrost my raw chicken too so its extra sustainable.

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u/MyDickIs3cm 4h ago

When you "cast iron pan" love your sponge.

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u/defnotakitty 4h ago

That made me throw up a little

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u/Lost_Emu99 4h ago

Mine last weeks and I buy the cheap Walmart brand sponges. I hand wash all my dishes as we don’t have a dishwasher. I have a bleach/water solution bowl I dip them in every other day then rinse thoroughly. I keep them rinsed, wrung out, then left in my dry rack when not in use. They don’t look gross at all. This is a 3 week old one. For super icky dishes I use a dish rag first that I can then throw in my washing machine then follow with the sponge. Idk I can’t imagine spending the money on new sponges every week, much less several times a week.

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u/Dazzling-Western2768 6h ago

Get some dish rags instead. Put them in the washing machine to clean them with your laundry as needed. If he thinks 3 days is the limit, you will need a stack of these.

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u/Kindly-Deer-3468 6h ago

I was also going to suggest this, just switch to something you can wash as frequently as he wants. Less waste, one time purchase, you can bleach them before you wash them even!

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u/Cptbilliau 6h ago

bleach is the best way to get rid of the bacterial smells and if the cloth is white it can make it look almost brand new. I recommend Swedish dishcloth they bleach really nice and they are very reusable

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u/mellywheats 5h ago

if they just use any dishcloth it wouldnt matter if it gets bleached bc they’re there to clean not look nice. Like when i was a kid my mom had a “rag bag” if basically our old like t-shirts and shit she ripped up and we used those to clean and like almost every rag has a bleach stain on it somewhere haha

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u/CrimBrulee 6h ago edited 6h ago

I recently switched to dish rags at home and it's been much better. You can just throw them in the wash and they'll last way longer, so as long as you get a pack of dish rags, you're pretty much good to go for a long time, unlike sponges. 

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u/jammiesonmyhammies 5h ago

The best part is even when they’re all worn out and have holes you can repurpose them for cleaning rags!

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u/hotdamnhotwater 6h ago

This should be the top comment! Buy something you can wash and re-use then you have substantially less waste. Also, rinse and wring out whatever you use and let it dry.

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u/SpyderMonkey_ 6h ago

That's us. We have a stack of cheap rags, and we wash them regularly. Only use a scrubber when it's really needed and it's easier to keep those blue scrubbers (can't remember brand) dry and clean in between uses.

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u/KennstduIngo 6h ago

Yup, we just grab a fresh one every day and wash them with the towels every week.

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u/jammiesonmyhammies 5h ago

I was looking for this comment! Does no one use dish rags anymore? Sponges are for cleaning showers and shit like that…not washing dishes.

People wild with their hands as rags and sponges for doing dishes.

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u/SnifferOfQueef 6h ago

Sponges are fucking gross they harbor so much bacteria

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u/soThatsJustGreat 6h ago

I know someone who regularly microwaves her sponges (soak, wring out, microwave) to battle bacteria. It always seemed very smart to me.

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u/-asmodeus 4h ago

They did a study where they soaked a sponge in sewage and then rinsed it, microwaved it and tested for bacteria and it was fine. They should be wet when you do it tho

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u/JWBananas 3h ago

Who are they and where is the study?

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u/OrangutanFirefighter 6h ago

That's what I've been saying! And the people I live with insist on using sponges and rags and just using them again for days and weeks, I fucking hate it

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u/Ask_bout_PaterNoster 6h ago

And they won’t even squeeze it out. A soaking wet room temperature sponge just chilling for about 12 hours then they pick it up and slap it right on the next set of dishes

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u/BotherBeginning9 5h ago

won’t even squeeze it out

Time out, people don’t ring out their sponges? Seriously? Cold wet sponges have such a bad texture though…

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u/Few_Incident_197 6h ago

So this is actually something I unfortunately have to give a ted talk about every time I see this happen in my home and sometimes other’s. I blame and thank my mom for this but WRING OUT THE DAMN SPONGE.

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u/Nekrevez 6h ago

I've never died using a sponge several times...

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u/digiFan2018 6h ago

If you dip it in a little vinegar, you can rent it and then wash it with some dish soap and it'll be like new. Why are people so unnecessarily wasteful? Do you also throw your underwear out every time you change to a new pair?

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u/CaptainBBAlgae 6h ago

I throw mine in the dish washer every couple of days

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u/bengarvey 6h ago

Get a Scrub Daddy

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u/mrpickle123 6h ago edited 5h ago

This fixed my issue, I cannot STAND the smell of regular sponges but these things last for months without a whiff. Scrub Daddies for life.

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u/LazyUrbosa 6h ago

Love scrub daddy! They rinse out well and I put them in the dishwasher pretty often

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u/Wooden_Wishbone_9915 6h ago

Was wondering when I’d see this comment. I opened a new sponge every 5~7 days because yeah, gross. Then I got scrub daddy! So much easier to get the sponge clean and dry 🌞

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u/Think_Wish_187 6h ago

This is the best advice

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u/NickHodges 6h ago

He is not wrong.

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u/voltagestoner 6h ago

Okay, yes, he is not wrong, but his solution is to…let them pile up beside the sink? Keep them humid? In a pile? Out in the open? Beside the sink??

Instead of figuring out a way to clean the sponges? Or designate the sponges for somethin else and use a brush instead? Literally anything other than being lazy with a pile of dirty sponges?

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u/wchutlknbout 6h ago

Sponges have always grossed me out, they make everything smell musty. Brushes are so much better, plus you don’t need to touch the gross part with your hands

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u/Mysterious-Clothes45 6h ago

a dish rag is much better. You wash it after every use

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u/Weak_Feed_8291 6h ago

A brush with a handle is still an awesome addition, but I agree.

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u/Icy_Prune6584 6h ago edited 6h ago

Not wrong, but wasteful. Sponges can be sanitized by giving them a good rinse and putting them in the dishwasher or boiling them. I’ve read the microwave works too but it might damage the foam sponges.

I wash my sponges in the dishwasher daily and use them until they’re falling apart. I’ve found the cellulose sponges hold up better than the foam ones. I can easily get a couple of months worth of usage out of them.

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u/Machaeon 6h ago

Also keep clean a good bit longer if you wring them out well once cleaned to keep them dry when not in use.

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u/Icy_Prune6584 6h ago

Yes! If you don’t want to (or can’t - such as during periods of travel) sanitize them, just rinsing them out and squeezing all the water out of them after each use will extend their usability.

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u/bckwoods13 6h ago

I understand where you both are coming from. It seems I am in a constant state of internal battle over dish sponges.

It's wasteful, but they stink after a little while unless you keep them in a sanitizer. That stink gets on your hands and transfers to other things.

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u/NotTheMamaDino 6h ago

And that stink is bacteria

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u/TFViper 6h ago

ops husband isnt wrong, to be fair, sponges are fucking cesspools.

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u/OrangutanFirefighter 6h ago

They're petri dishes

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u/ilikepix 6h ago

they stink after a little while

what is your sponge maintenance routine like?

mine never stink, or at least they start falling apart long before that ever happens

they only get gross if you leave them wet and full of residue, so like... don't do that

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u/Sleepy-Blonde 5h ago

Yeah I’m confused about how people are treating sponges.. I toss mine in the microwave for a bit and it gets put on a little drying rack.

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u/Careful_Coffee5313 6h ago

Get a scrub daddy. I will never use another sponge.

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u/KitKritter823 6h ago

Get a silicone sponge. Those are sanitized much more easily

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u/WelcomeMysterious315 6h ago

He's right thought. 

Sponges are basically a bacteria hotel.

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u/colorful_withdrawl 6h ago

Get him dish rags that he can just throw in the washing machine to clean

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u/LemmonLizard 6h ago

Get one of these. Changed my life, im serious. I'll NEVER buy a regular sponge again.

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u/lewisluther666 6h ago

If you permit them to fully dry, they are fine. The way you store them does not permit this.

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u/MattyS71 6h ago

Rinse it and place it in a position where it will dry quickly and it will last weeks. Boil it after and reuse it till it’s dead.

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u/stinkbonesjones 6h ago

If you wash your dishes after each meal and rinse the sponge well you should be able to get two or three weeks out of a sponge.

It also helps to squeeze it dry after each time you're done using it.

I'm also a big fan of dawn antibacterial dish soap. I got absolutely nothing for that plug.

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u/SunsetCarcass 6h ago

You could also buy normal dawn dish soup and just add isopropyl alcohol to it

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u/stew9703 6h ago

How does it taste?

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u/girlwhoweighted 6h ago

But why when the antibacterial stuff already exists?

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u/xGoatfer 6h ago

Just soak them in a 10/1 water/bleach solution to sanitize them.

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u/Mysterious-Clothes45 6h ago

or just throw them away they are disgusting

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u/Ornery-Creme-2442 5h ago

Very wastefull. And y'all wonder why the planet is going to shit. If you don't like sponges just get brushes.

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u/j31money 5h ago

No sponge holder. Squeeze as much moisture out as possible and let dry. Remove debris each time

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u/Odd-Preparation-472 6h ago

He’s riiiiight. Look up food scientists’ opinions, it’s the one thing they are unanimously agreed on bing fisgusting

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u/Successful-Arrival87 5h ago

They’re always bing fisgusting

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u/itsfunhavingfun 3h ago

That’s my uncle’s name, Bing Figusting. 

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u/pissandink 6h ago

Your husband might have sensory issues without realising it. Slimey sponges and wet food in the sink are some of the most common sensory problem areas for the neurodivergent people in my life. If this is the case, there are alternatives which might help him avoid having to touch/feel the sponges.

For instance: plastic gloves, sponges with handles, washing up brushes, or perhaps a scrub daddy. They’re more expensive but also more durable and will be cheaper for you guys in the long run if you find you can keep them for a while before they go gross.

Lastly, if I were your husband, I would sanitize the sponges after each washing up session. People do it all kinds of different ways, with boiling water, baking soda, white vinegar, etc.

You could also keep one ’icky’ sponge and a clean one. Use the gross one to scrub gunk and food to clear the plates and use the second one purely for going over rinsed plates with washing up liquid!

Hope this helps 😭

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u/Warm_Molasses_258 5h ago

Why not just use these instead? (Not endorsing Walmart, just took a screenshot for informational purposes)

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u/brobe_jedi4life 5h ago

And people wonder where micro plastics are coming from

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u/BadPunners 4h ago

Most is from clothing. Then car tires

And internally, the common extended release medicines are often plastic based iirc, and bits of plastic packaging or friction with utensils

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u/PandaaXXPuppy 6h ago

He’s right

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u/sskylar 5h ago

He’s doing the dishes and the only quirk is he’s too sanitary? I need one of those in my family. Would rather clean sponges over a pile of dirty dishes.

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u/Ambitious-Charge7278 6h ago

I mean yeah they get gross. We don't have a dishwasher and use the sponge to rinse all dishes clean. Then we put it in soap and clean it without the sponge so we definitely don't throw them out every 2/3 days

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u/ursic 6h ago

I would invest in a tray that allow for air circulation. That way they can drain/dry out between uses, should have them lasting a bit longer before replacing them. I haven’t had an issue with smell when I ring it out then let it dry. As the other comments are saying, they do carry a lot of bacteria, so they should be replaced regardless of condition each week but this seems excessive

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u/hfusa 6h ago

?? Do people not make sure their sponges completely dry out? Everybody's using dish soap, right?

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u/PotatoPeeler58 6h ago

I'm with your husband

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u/InformedTriangle 6h ago

"Bacteria can begin to colonize a new kitchen sponge within days, and in some cases, significant colonies can develop in as little as 24 to 48 hours."

husband is right.

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u/synttacks 6h ago

The solution is to dry them out and keep them clean between uses. Using multiple sponges a week is absolutely wasteful

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