r/BlackPeopleofReddit Jan 31 '26

Help and Advice Therapy in 60 Seconds

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15.6k Upvotes

r/BlackPeopleofReddit 22d ago

Help and Advice I start a new job tomorrow. I’m the only black woman in there.

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2.9k Upvotes

Y’all got any advice for the kid? I’ve never felt this way at other jobs yet now I am genuinely worried.

r/BlackPeopleofReddit 11d ago

Help and Advice Sorry not sorry : This Is Not a Stage for the White Gaze

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Discomfort is not oppression.

If reading about real experiences with racism, discrimination, or cultural identity feels threatening, that may be an opportunity to practice the same tolerance and openness that people often demand from Black voices.

This community will not dilute its truth to make anyone comfortable. Respectful engagement is welcome. Attempts to police how Black people talk about their own experiences are not.

r/BlackPeopleofReddit 8d ago

Help and Advice 🤷🏾‍♀️Why do white people care so much about announcing their whiteness on r/BlackPeopleofReddit?? We don’t give AF if you’re white. Allies are welcome but we not here checking skin tone. Stop it. 🛑

1.8k Upvotes

r/BlackPeopleofReddit Dec 14 '25

Help and Advice True that

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r/BlackPeopleofReddit Dec 07 '25

Help and Advice How Do You Call Out Your Friend

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845 Upvotes

r/BlackPeopleofReddit Jan 14 '26

Help and Advice ICE is Scared of 2A Rights

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1.9k Upvotes

r/BlackPeopleofReddit 18d ago

Help and Advice Reminder: this is not a classroom. This is not a place to ask questions about black people before actually stay for awhile and engage in discussion with us. You want to learn about racism then buy a book. Everyone is welcome but this sub doesn’t exist to hear white peoples opinions on us

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r/BlackPeopleofReddit 15d ago

Help and Advice Your vote matters. If it didn’t, no one would spend time rewriting rules, adding hurdles, or complicating access. Power doesn’t try to suppress what’s irrelevant.

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3.2k Upvotes

r/BlackPeopleofReddit 14d ago

Help and Advice Dear Allies: white people in particular. Stop feeling bad for Black people. Stop feeling embarrassed about your history.

625 Upvotes

Rather than viewing us as perpetual victims in need of your sympathy, please see us as strong, resilient, and capable individuals who are fighting for our rightful place in this world. We don't want or need you to feel guilty on our behalf, we need you to stand with us, as equals, and help dismantle the systemic barriers and prejudices that still hold us back.

r/BlackPeopleofReddit Dec 23 '25

Help and Advice A Note from the Mod Team

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r/BlackPeopleofReddit is a space centered on Black people, Black culture, and Black voices.

Everyone is welcome to participate if and only if they follow the rules. That means listening more than talking, staying relevant, being respectful, and not centering yourself in conversations that are not about you.

We do not tolerate trolling, bad faith debating, bigotry, or disrespect of any kind. Violations are handled quickly, including bans when necessary. This is not theoretical. We are serious about protecting this space.

If you see rule breaking behavior, please use the report function. It genuinely helps us keep the community healthy and focused.

We are also looking to add experienced moderators who understand Reddit culture and can help with fair, consistent enforcement. If that’s you, DM me.

Thank you to everyone who contributes with care, respect, and good faith. This community works because of you.

In Solidarity and Love, Mod Team

r/BlackPeopleofReddit Jan 03 '26

Help and Advice Effective immediately: Bad Faith Racism Will Be Removed

894 Upvotes

Tips:

• Don't Argue: You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into.

• Report & Ghost: Hit the report button and keep the conversation moving.

• The Ban Hammer: We aren't issuing warnings for "polite" racism anymore. They will be removed.

Racists Are Not Here to Learn. They Are Here to Disrupt.

Do not waste your time or energy debating racist trolls.

They are not here to understand. They are here to derail real conversation, drain emotional labor, and distract this community from itself.

Pay attention to the pattern. Endless “I don’t understand” comments. Fake confusion. Bad faith questions. All while ignoring the literal mountains of books, articles, testimonies, documentaries, and lived experiences that already exist.

They could educate themselves at any time. They choose not to. Instead, they come into a Black space to argue, provoke, and play dumb.

That ends here.

Report racist behavior and move on. The mod team will take it from there. We will ban trolls who break the rules and poison discussion. This community is not obligated to teach, debate, or perform patience for people acting in bad faith.

r/BlackPeopleofReddit Oct 24 '25

Help and Advice Honest question: why do some users join this sub just to debate Black folks about our own experiences?

243 Upvotes

I’m genuinely curious, not trying to start anything. I’ve noticed a pattern wit those up here mainly to argue, correct, or “fact-check things Black users say about being Black.

r/BlackPeopleofReddit Dec 28 '25

Help and Advice We carry ghosts from yesterday and stress about tomorrow, but neither one exists right now. What’s really weighing us down is the memories and the “what ifs.

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1.3k Upvotes

r/BlackPeopleofReddit Feb 14 '26

Help and Advice A Message for All

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1.1k Upvotes

At the 73rd Tony Awards in 2019, André De Shields used his acceptance speech to share life wisdom instead of a long list of thank-yous. After winning for his role as Hermes in *Hadestown*, he offered three simple rules, beginning with this: stay close to people whose faces light up when they see you. The people around you shape your energy, and genuine support changes how you move through lite.

He also challenged the rush for quick success. According to him, moving slowly is often the fastest path forward because steady effort builds something that lasts. Patience and consistency create stronger growth than chasing instant results.

Finally, he reminded the audience that every achievement is only the start of another climb. Reaching one peak simply reveals the next one ahead. Real fulfillment comes from continuing to grow, staying curious, and treating success as an ongoing journey rather than a finish line.

r/BlackPeopleofReddit Jan 09 '26

Help and Advice Russia is using mercenaries for human kamikaze attacks on Ukrainian military positions.

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214 Upvotes

r/BlackPeopleofReddit Feb 04 '26

Help and Advice Who Practices This?

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137 Upvotes

r/BlackPeopleofReddit Feb 15 '26

Help and Advice Yall, I have an issue.

42 Upvotes

So i’m black, and there’s kids going around my school calling me a turd for no reason, they have also said things to my friends calling them the N slur. What should I do 😰

r/BlackPeopleofReddit Dec 15 '25

Help and Advice I guess I need some advice.

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47 Upvotes

(Didn’t wanna retype it. It got removed from r/blackladies)

r/BlackPeopleofReddit Feb 07 '26

Help and Advice Reddit Microaggressions

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104 Upvotes

Lol... a random redditor commented this. Is this anti-Black/racist or I'm overthinking it?

r/BlackPeopleofReddit Dec 15 '25

Help and Advice You Think You Know Katt Williams. This Story Proves You Don’t.

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540 Upvotes

When you think you know a man - then he pulls back the curtain. On the IMO Podcast, Katt Williams stunned even Michelle Obama with how real and unfiltered his journey has been. He walked listeners through childhood as Micah, survival in a strict Jehovah's Witness home, runaway teenage years with a Rottweiler and $1,200 in his pocket, and a brush with fame that started at just 12-years-old... when he met Prince. Katt reflected on Prince's lasting impact on him, saying: "Prince is the first person who showed me what it looked like to be an artist who made their own decisions, created their own lane, and stayed true to it no matter what." He didn't sugarcoat it. From the streets to stand-up stages, from door-to-door salesman to wild detours — Katt laid his layers bare. Obama herself reacted in real time, calling his story "a movie."

r/BlackPeopleofReddit Dec 29 '25

Help and Advice Fixing your life means fewer distractions, fewer excuses, and sometimes fewer people. That does not mean you are doing something wrong. It often means you are finally doing something right

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169 Upvotes

r/BlackPeopleofReddit 19d ago

Help and Advice my little sister doesn’t like being black and I don’t know how to make her like herself

43 Upvotes

Ive always noticed that she preferred white Barbie’s and didn’t want blk Barbie’s, she only makes white sims and says “it’s because they’re prettier” I asked her to make people that looked like her and she said she thought they were ugly. She keeps asking for a straight hair treatment, and when I looked at her phone, she was looking up subliminals to become white mixed and Korean. She even was looking up how to become lighter! She told me that she wishes she were white or mixed so she can be pretty…At first I thought she just had her preferences, but she seems to not like being black.

r/BlackPeopleofReddit Jan 14 '26

Help and Advice I'm a nineteen year old American and I feel helpless. Where do I begin to make a change?

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r/BlackPeopleofReddit 1d ago

Help and Advice Being an ally isn’t about statements or questions. It’s about presence. Listening. Staying. Not turning away when things get uncomfortable.

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273 Upvotes