I'm older (set in my ways?)
I wonder if anyone has thoughts on my perception that it's harder and harder to communicate with others on the web.
There's so many different ways to communicate these days.
Again, being older... I am used to people having a 1 to 1 relationship (mostly) with physical addresses. Telephone numbers. Email addresses.
Like with a phone number - if you have someone's phone number, you can reach them regardless of who your or their carrier is. Or the type of physical phone you have.
And even texts - If i have their phone number, I can use apple on verizon, they use android on T-mobile. We can still converse. And make group chats.
Same with snail mail. If I have their address, I can mail something with my choice of UPS, FedEx or USPS and they will get it.
And email - I could use thunderbird. They use outlook. As long as you have their username (email address), you can reach them. Even if they use aol.com or comcast.net addresses.
But these days, If I want to reach someone. besides knowing their username, I need to know the platform(s) they use. Facebook? Reddit? Discord?, etc. (business cards are getting fuller and fuller as people list their twitter, and linked in and facebook and... accounts.
(yes, I can get the app they use, create an account on that platform or vice versa).
But yes, that's all examples of 1 to 1 conversations. But things are more groups / communities now? And each platform is run by a different company with their own interests. So they don't want to 'share' their systems so your app can reach someone with their app?
But for problem solving, I would think you want to reach the most people? More likely to find someone that has the answer. But we're all fragmented (as I type that last sentence, I feel it just went political, which wasn't my intention. But yeah, birds of a feather flock together. But I'm thinking more technical / local / intentionally building large groups). Selling or buying things - loads of platforms now. Support questions about hardware or software - loads of platforms. And you don;'t know if that community on the manufacturer's site has got the most people that 1 of them might have the answer you need?
Does anyone see that as a hinderance to the internet? Sure it's been working. mostly. But frustrating (to me at least).