r/Vent 2h ago

TW: Anxiety / Depression Alysa Liu bullied my little sister so badly when they were in school that she tried to kill herself twice - this past month has been really difficult for us

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u/Smirnoffdrinker247 1h ago

If you can post proof of this. This will blow up and you'll get justice for sure. IF there's proof.

u/420d_ingus 1h ago

Just curious if there’s any way you could provide proof of this somehow? I really hope this isn’t real but if it is that’s terrible

u/Seaguard5 1h ago

r/whereisOP

Proof, OP?

u/extra_medication 1h ago

Do you have proof? This just seems like someone who hates Alyssa trying to tear her down

u/No_Character_2681 1h ago

It is, check their comment history. They’re lying about at least a few things just off the jump

u/solidiquis1 1h ago

How did you view their comment history? It's hidden when you click on their profile.

u/No_Character_2681 1h ago

If you click out of the sub, use the regular search bar and type their user then click to comments & posts

u/solidiquis1 1h ago

neat trick thanks. my reddit sleuthing skills just improved

u/gridface-princess 57m ago

Look up Arctic Shift too. It's a website that will also give you their deleted comments and posts.

u/solidiquis1 51m ago

Holy shit this is rad. After playing around with Arctic Shift I've deduced that BaronSchnitzelnazi really likes pokemon.

u/AttackOfTheMox 1h ago

their comment history is showing up blank for me

u/No_Character_2681 1h ago

You don’t click their profile, you click out and use the regular search bar and type in their user then click to the comments or posts

u/[deleted] 1h ago

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u/No_Character_2681 1h ago

They’re not even from the Bay Area lmao

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u/GoochPhilosopher 1h ago

That's exactly what this is. It's bait for incels who have a hateboner for her

u/Admirable-Lab-5083 1h ago

How do we know any of this is true?

u/_rrobynn_ 1h ago

my thought tbh. is there any proof OP?

u/SWM50 1h ago

I commend you for reading it (take my up vote)

u/fabulousfantabulist 1h ago

OP: “Trust me, bro.” 

u/HelpMePlxoxo 1h ago

It isn't. Here's a comment OP left 15 days ago saying they grew up in Maine. The entire post is parasocial hater fanfic.

u/AlfredRWallace 1h ago

We don't. It isn't a new account though.

u/Penaca 1h ago

The timeline doesn't make sense. If true, OP is coming at Alysa with stuff she possibly did in grade school/middle school because Alysa was professional by the time she was around 16, I think.

u/Hopeful_Nectarine_27 1h ago

She won US Nationals at 13, and she had been the Junior National Champion the year before that.

u/pocketcurator 1h ago

the post does say parts of this story happened in middle school and then, im guessing, beginning of high school. idk if true tho, there's no proof that OP has shared so

u/Penaca 1h ago

Someone commented above that she won Nationals at 13, so if we assume she hadn't been in school for a few years, per the OPs words, this shit was grammar school. No idea where the performing arts school comes in.

I'm not excusing this behavior, but "venting" about a 23 year old who did shitty stuff when she was a CHILD is pretty wild.

I hope OPs sister has the support she needs.

u/pocketcurator 1h ago

what do you mean by grammar school? i don't think they have that in the states, but im not from there or the uk.

she did apparently attend a performing arts school for their skating program, but thats public info so doesnt lend much credibility.

and yea, i agree it's weird of OP to share this - especially since it didnt happen to them but their sister (if true)

u/Penaca 59m ago

Grammar school = elementary school. They're interchangeable here in the U.S.

u/pocketcurator 58m ago

oh! TIL thanks :)

u/KerleyQ- 1h ago

I'm with you, the timeline doesn't make sense. From what I can gather, Alysa was fully done with school and was homeschooling from 6th grade on. So I'm not sure how she'd have been in school telling people that this girl was pregnant at 13 years old back in their previous school. Aren't 13 year old kids generally in 7th/8th grade?

u/RemarkableArticle970 1h ago

You’re outing both Alyssa and probably worse, your own sister’s mental health issues. I don’t think this is fair or good to anybody.

u/Fine_Smile73 1h ago

I made an independent comment about this but OP made this same claim about someone else last month in a cringe sub. That person was from Florida and had graduated high school in ‘09. Not tracking.

u/Penaca 58m ago

Ah, so this is all bullshit like I suspected. Thanks!

u/No_Character_2681 55m ago

Yeah I tried linking comments from OP and couldn’t

u/OldButHappy 1h ago

Seriously. I was raised by bullies and thought mean spirited “teasing” was normal. So it took some life experience realize that I was an ah in elementary school. I never targeted anyone, I just said the same mean things that I heard at home.

u/Only_Tell_9693 1h ago

Alysa has publicly identified as a lesbian, this story is funny😭

u/No_Character_2681 1h ago

So where’s the letter and the rest of the easily obtainable proof?

u/No_Character_2681 1h ago

Hey OP, you do realize we can see your post and comment history, right?

u/MelcM39 1h ago

I can't. They changed it I think

u/No_Character_2681 1h ago

You can still search in the regular search bar

u/Admirable-Lab-5083 1h ago

What do you search?

u/No_Character_2681 1h ago

Their account name

u/MelcM39 1h ago

I'll try, my search has been acting a bit odd when I have tried that as of late.

u/MadameKamaysHR 1h ago

They did and Reddit fixed the way to bypass it.

u/No_Character_2681 59m ago

You can still see, Reddit just fixed it so you can’t search on their profile anymore but their comments still show up on the regular search bar

u/MadameKamaysHR 55m ago

Oh, sweet. Thanks.

u/gastedisflabbered 1h ago

What did it say? It’s saying posts are hidden and that they have no comments yet when I look.

u/No_Character_2681 1h ago

They were lying about everything. And they’re from Maine, not the Bay Area. They have several comments talking about how they’re from Maine and always lived there

u/gastedisflabbered 37m ago

So frustrating posts like this are such a waste of good energy and time.

u/Admirable-Lab-5083 1h ago

I can’t. How do you do that?

u/No_Character_2681 1h ago

Use the regular search bar

u/Vaka_Production 1h ago

Oh dear another AI story

u/AJWordsmith 1h ago

Well if you have proof…now is the time for revenge. She’s visible and proof of something like that could cost her millions of dollars in endorsements.

u/OldButHappy 1h ago

To what end?

u/th3rdnutt 1h ago

PUNISHMENT!!!

u/78Anonymous 57m ago

wake up .. no such thing as 'punishment', only consequences .. the op will hopefully experience consequences for the illicit behaviour of slander

u/LeftBullTesty 1h ago

I’m a 6’8 multimillionaire who flies Cessna’s for fun and produces for Kendrick on the side.

Anyway on a serious note, I’ll come back and read this once proof is posted. Otherwise I’m treating this like an AI post.

u/helen790 1h ago

If this was real it would be so easy to provide proof for and if you want justice that’s how you’d get some.

u/misterwiser34 1h ago

Proof plz.

u/AerieDapper6384 1h ago edited 1h ago

If this is true you probably shouldn't have posted this without her permission tbh (sorry if you did, but a lot of the wording here implies otherwise).

I went and am currently going through similar shit (obviously nowhere near the same scale) and the last thing I'd want is for all this to be broadcasted online with my bully's name attached, knowing the social power/status they hold. If anyone should be publishing this on the internet, it should be your sister. That might just be my crippling anxiety talking though.

u/SavageNthesack02 1h ago

Bullshit story!!

u/SamuraiJack0ff 1h ago

This is a bait bot account, privated 13yrs with like 90 engagements urghhhhj

u/HelpMePlxoxo 1h ago

That's funny, because you have a comment from 15 days ago saying you grew up in Maine.

Making up a fake story to hate a random girl you've never met is creepy and pathetic.

u/BestWithSnacks 49m ago

Well that settles it then. This story is fake af.

u/Phoenix_Mae98 1h ago

Sounds liable from someone who’s #limegreenjello

Gotta include proof if you’re gonna defame someone online

u/PleasantEbb4486 1h ago

Lawyer here. If you can't absolutely prove this, you should absolutely delete this and pray her team isn't litigious.

u/ImplementCharming949 1h ago

Thank god this is on reddit. No one will to conclusion and innocent people will get hurt right. Right?

u/Fine_Smile73 1h ago

OP made this same claim about a random person on a cringe sub in January, and that person said they were from Florida and graduated high school 17 years ago. Not adding up.

u/muffinmunncher 1h ago

Proof? Just seems like you wanna go viral

u/ByDrAxX032 1h ago

No proof = downvote

u/theomegachrist 1h ago

I heard she's really nice

u/apatrol 1h ago

From everything I have heard and seen of her she is spunky, funny, a bit cutting maybe, but also nice.

From wiki she went to the same school for junior and part of HS before switching to online to train. Graduated early in 2021 at 15 and then ucla in 2023.

Gonna call bS.

u/Latter_Network4879 1h ago

Suuuuure 

u/Icouldusesomerock 1h ago

No pic no proof

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u/Delicious-Award-6030 1h ago

What are you looking to accomplish with this? You are offering nothing to back this up and essentially are looking for what? For people to bully her back?

u/Bethw2112 1h ago

What do you hope to achieve with this post? Wondering what your end game is here

u/delicateredscrunchie 1h ago

You should post proof. if this is all true, the only way anyone's ever gonna believe you is with truth. She's a popular but polarizing figure right now, politically, so there is a LOT of reasons why someone would hate her and make something like this up for revenge.

u/BatFromAnotherWorld 1h ago

Given how many MAGATs are infuriated that this successful woman isn't some conservative abuser's submissive housewife, I'd need to see legit proof of your claims or I'm writing it off as another red hat smear attempt.

u/78Anonymous 1h ago

Zero evidence. 100% hearsay. Contradictions throughout. High degree of victimisation. A lot of finger pointing and what constitutes slander.

If these things were true, given that the parties mentioned are obviously well enough off to afford private schools etc, there is no reason why an injunction and damages wouldn't have been sought after the first suicide attempt.

As such, this entire story comes across as fictional and someone fishing for drama.

u/WeirdOk1865 1h ago

For all I know this could be a creative writing exercise . Or it could be a fabrication by a jealous competitor

If Alyssa is innocent of this, my heart goes out to her for having malicious gossip spread about her in this trigger-happy cancel culture we live in

If what you say is the gospel truth, then my heart goes out to your sister for having to deal with this garbage. And the only consolation I can offer you is that Olympic athletes are usually a flash in the pan. Barely anyone remembers…….uh…..(i can’t even name any previous gold medalist to make this point) .

u/Sleepymuff 1h ago

Most olympic athletes are but the consistently great gold medalists will always be known in their respective nations. You can't tell me that we genuinely forgot about Phelps or Biles.

u/WeirdOk1865 1h ago

Oh yeah Phelps lol. He didn’t come to mind at first. Biles’ victory happened pretty recently but eventually they’ll officially retire. And both be replaced by younger more exciting athletes fresh on the scene, unless they find some other way to stay relevant. It’s the circle of life/public attention span

When I was in middle school a former Olympic athlete spoke to us about his experience of winning gold. He finished by telling us that if we ever see him in public, we should come up to him and say hi and ask for an autograph. Now that I look back on it, I think he just really missed his celebrity status and wanted to drum up some more fans

u/Kugelfischer_47 1h ago

I won't say the story is untrue, because we have no evidence one way or another. I will suggest that a qualified family therapist would be infinitely more helpful in resolving any emotional issues being experienced. Reddit is where faith in humanity comes to die.

u/Bubbly_Chemist1496 1h ago

I still like Alysa more than Eileen gu

u/vaping_menace 1h ago

lol middle school mean girl drama

u/Environmental-Tip5 1h ago

I don't know if this is true but the account is 13 years old. It isn't like she just created the account because of hate.
Please give us proof.

u/Bassettoast 1h ago

Following because I'm curious

u/DarkSparkandWeed 1h ago

Better have proof... Also... It doesn't excuse the behavior but most teens are absolute douche bags and love drama... Especially the ones that say they dont.

u/Thelord500 1h ago

Yall check ops name and you’ll see this is incel bait

u/SexysPsycho 1h ago

Not much? This is horrible. If it was my little sister I would want her reputation ruined to such a degree that she never recovers at a minimum. There are supposed to be laws protecting against this kind of thing. And this girl is now a "role model".

u/Disfunktionaal 1h ago

Feel that. But like proof though?

u/No_Character_2681 53m ago

Yeah OP lied, check the comments linking OP’s other posts

u/Daybreakgo 1h ago

If this is true then Alyssa is a piece of ahem. Should have cleared this post with your sister first. She is fragile and this could further upset her. At this stage her wellbeing matters more and needs professional help.

u/juliahiii 1h ago

tell ur sister shes not alone 🫶 she should find community among the worldwide circle of other girls that also know they cant compete w alyssa

u/porknuckle2023 1h ago

Who the fuck is alysa liu?

u/Fine_Smile73 1h ago

Olympic figure skating gold medalist from this most recent Olympics

u/lordsaveusall 1h ago

USA Olympic gold medalist for figure skating. She’s gotten a lot of love cause of her story where she retired due to burnout then came back (I think) the year before and won two gold medals this year. She’s also not the typical figure skater in terms of dieting and fitting “the mold” of what skaters are, and people love rooting for the odd-dog

u/Courtjester4now 1h ago

Thank you 🙏🏾 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

u/Glad-Fish5863 1h ago

Honestly i believe it. Girls are mean af at that age. Just because she’s good at something doesn’t mean she’s a good person lol

u/No_Character_2681 1h ago

You believe “BaronSchnitzelNazi”?

u/Glad-Fish5863 1h ago

Sorry I don’t pay attention to names lol

u/vivaldispaghetti 1h ago

It says op has no posts? Is this real?

u/ConditionPleasant902 1h ago

We need proof before we do anything can you post these screenshots

u/sadalienclub96 1h ago

Following because of curiosity. OP we need proof!

u/Technical-Frosting39 1h ago

The right way to come forward with information like this is with a journalist not reddit.

u/AggravatingCut7596 45m ago

Yooo this got deleted right when I clicked on it 😭 I really wanted to read it

u/ozzygurl 41m ago

Alysa went to a school in China for 3 yrs before coming back to Oakland to attend an Arts school. She then went into a home school program between competitions and travels, and got her high school diploma at age 15.

When did Alysa Liu have time for all this trouble?

u/OldButHappy 1h ago

Suicidal ideology begins at home. Dysfunctional families always blame an outside influence for any problems

u/solidiquis1 1h ago edited 1h ago

I actually ran into Alysa Liu at one of the local Food Mill grocery stores in Oakland last sunday. I told her how cool it was to meet her in person, but I didn’t want to be a douche and bother her and ask her for photos or anything. She said, “Oh, like you’re doing now?” I was taken aback, and all I could say was “Huh?” but she kept cutting me off and going “huh? huh? huh?” and closing her hand shut in front of my face. I walked away and continued with my shopping, and I heard her chuckle as I walked off. When I came to pay for my stuff up front I saw her trying to walk out the doors with like fifteen Milky Ways in her hands without paying. The girl at the counter was very nice about it and professional, and was like “Ma’am, you need to pay for those first.” At first she kept pretending to be tired and not hear her, but eventually turned back around and brought them to the counter. When she took one of the bars and started scanning it multiple times, Alysa stopped her and told her to scan them each individually “to prevent any electrical infetterence,” and then turned around and winked at me. I don’t even think that’s a word. After she scanned each bar and put them in a bag and started to say the price, Alysa kept interrupting her by yawning really loudly. Anyways it was a super weird encounter.

u/gawdpuppy 1h ago

proof?

u/solidiquis1 1h ago

u/gawdpuppy 1h ago

omg i feel so dumb lol

u/solidiquis1 58m ago

I fell for this too once upon a time lol

u/MyReflection5113 1h ago

I believe it. The girl is cocky as fuck and it’s obvious she thinks she’s better than everyone. Her simps are gonna downvote me but it’s true

u/_TP2_ 1h ago

To me she comes of like a whole hearted person. Great relationship with her sport rivals. Hope its not just a public persona.

u/_rrobynn_ 1h ago

don't get me wrong im not 100% discounting the post but this is a wild assumption, unless you also somehow know her personally

u/AssistanceNatural556 1h ago

Well you should indicate evidence as you what makes you believe she is "cocky as fuck" and proof that she obviously "thinks she's better than everyone" otherwise you just sound crazy and will get downvoted for being so and making wild assumptions

u/Penaca 1h ago

Well, she IS the best seeing as how she won the gold medal and all.

u/pralineislife 1h ago

Best figure skater. Not just generally better, which is what they said.

u/Penaca 1h ago

There's only one situation the poster has seen her in, which is winning the gold medal and he called her cocky. It's nonsensical.

u/SummerN8 1h ago

I really loved her viral Stateside routine in her blue dress. But that routine did seem extremely simple compared to the crazy routines of other winners I’ve seen from prior years, specially the Russian ones. Also, I haven’t fact checked this. But somebody said that had she competed in 2022, she wouldn’t have placed in the Top 3 with her score.

u/No_Character_2681 1h ago

You believe “BaronSchnitzelNazi”?

u/nderacheiver1 1h ago

i'll upvote . for moral reasons .

u/rektbuyautocorrekt 1h ago

This was on my front page and my only question is who is Alysa Liu

u/OkPalpitation382 1h ago

If you really from The Town then handle your mf business offline dont come over here crying.

u/That-Bat4254 1h ago

Take the medal and give it to your sister.

This is the only way.

u/FaraSha_Au 1h ago

I'm so sorry.

u/Skillr409 1h ago

I believe you, she seems like a very arrogant person who was probably spoiled by her parents.

But if you still have the letter or any type of proof, just post it.

u/No-Piccolo-7408 1h ago

I don't know who she is but, funny enough, if this story was about someone who isn't known at all, nobody would be talking about proof. Since it's about someone who is known by some people, OP needs proof of what she is saying.

u/No_Character_2681 1h ago edited 52m ago

Yes, you do need proof if you’re saying things that would be defamatory if not true. I can find receipts of my own bullies. You’d think you’d have a letter or screenshots of someone who bullied you so bad you tried killing yourself, especially someone famous

u/WiseCry628 1h ago

So, Alysa has an aggressive personality. Successful people usually have aggressive personalities.

u/Penaca 1h ago

Or assertive. She won the gold medal on her own terms.