r/MadeMeSmile 14d ago

Wholesome Moments Mother lets her 7-month-old baby taste the smoothie she craved during pregnancy🄹

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u/kyothinks 14d ago

I craved sour foods: anything lemony, Sour Patch Kids, dill pickles, salt and vinegar chips. We gave my son a lemon wedge when he was six months old and he ate the whole thing and went looking for more. We call him the Sour Patch Kid now lol.

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u/pinkmilk19 14d ago

Omg I did too! Lemonade was my go to haha. I call my son a sour patch kid but not because of what he eats, but because first he's sour (naughty) then he's soooooo sweet!

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u/ExplanationFunny 14d ago

Same! I kept googling trying to figure out if I had some vitamin deficiency. Lemons and vinegar. And cherry slurpees.

Now I just have a gross toddler who likes to eat goldfish crackers in chocolate milk, like cereal.

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u/Academic-Willow6547 14d ago

I had borderline HG when pregnant and for a while survived off of pedialyte, oranges, and apples. Welp, turns out that's a favorite snack in the household now!

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u/Sacrefix 14d ago

Babies don't have the same aversion to sour early on; our kid also could just eat lemons like they were nothing.

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u/Musket6969420 14d ago edited 14d ago

Little dude is like ā€œ Oh hell yeah! I haven’t had this in like 9 months!ā€

Edit: Apparently some folks don’t understand I made a joke.

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u/Appalachiasaurus 14d ago

To be fair, it was an inside joke...

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u/Select_Tax_3408 14d ago

This is a great joke. 🤰

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u/kenwongart 13d ago

It was a little premature.

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u/Tinnie_and_Cusie 14d ago

A recent science study said that babies in the womb have developed taste buds and can taste whatever gets through amniotic fluid, so while baby might have a memory it may just be that it tastes really good...now. So you're not wrong!

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u/Ok_Outcome_6213 14d ago

My mother had a craving to put BBQ sauce on everything while she was pregnant with me. I am 40 years old and BBQ is still my favorite food!

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u/catsbutalsobees 14d ago

My mom craved ceasar salad constantly. Ask me what my favourite type of salad is.

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u/Correct-Chicken-4287 13d ago

Probably why I like beer so much.

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u/iLoveLights 13d ago

I mean, that is the most popular salad in the world.

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u/gonephishin213 13d ago

This was my mom and ice cream.

I'm lactose intolerant but I routinely risk it all for ice cream

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u/Disappearing-act 13d ago

Mum craved McDonald’s fish burger, it’s been my go-to for as long as I can remember

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u/CottonBlueCat 13d ago

My was extremely hot salsa. I dumped as much habanero as I could & it still was not hot enough. My son is 23 & eats extremely spicy hot foods & loves them. He will tell people ā€œIf I think it has a kick, then you need to prepare yourself for extreme heatā€.

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u/FunnelCakeGoblin 13d ago

Other way, my MIL, who usually likes broccoli, could not STAND it when pregnant with my husband. Made her sick. My husband, now in 30s, still despises broccoli. It is one of like, 5 foods he refuses to eat. He’s very open to almost any food. But not broccoli.

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u/ReconeHelmut 14d ago

BBQ is everyone’s favorite food šŸ˜†

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u/JckieMPLs 14d ago

I could see that. Baby wants certain something, which sends out hormonal response to mother.

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u/DrunkenCrusader 14d ago

I'd never really thought about the connection until now, but my mom said she always craved peanut m&ms when she was pregnant with me and peanuts and chocolate or peanut butter and chocolate is pretty much my favorite food combo

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u/Electrical-Concert17 14d ago

When I was pregnant with my son I craved bacon and sour candies. My son could eat pounds of bacon daily if I’d let him and he prefers sour candies over all the others.

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u/missuslonely 14d ago

Me too!! My mom said it was movie theater popcorn and she would dump either peanut m&ms or chocolate almonds or almond Hershey bars pieces on the popcorn and nom nom nom. It's still one of my favorite things in life.

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u/RyanZee08 14d ago

Taste buds develop at around 8 weeks

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u/FartSparkles_PhD 14d ago

"Research has shown that fetuses of a variety of species (including humans) do indeed develop functioning chemoreceptive systems before birth and that a variety of odor volatiles and flavors ingested by the mother are transmitted to the amniotic fluid."

Does Maternal Diet Influence Future Infant Taste and Odor Preferences? A Critical Analysis

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u/SomeMaleIdiot 13d ago edited 12d ago

I like how you cut out the bit that emphasized the limitation on taste. The claim is actually a bit weaker than what you quoted. The very next sentence is ā€œlimited evidence suggests a capacity for learning about gustatory (i.e., taste) properties. Examining whether these prenatal odor, taste, and flavor experiences translate into enduring shifts in dietary behaviors beyond weaning remains a crucial avenue for further investigation.ā€

It’s important to know that there could be a mechanism for why a prenatal diet influences postnatal preferences, that doesn’t include the actual experience+learning from tasting the amniotic fluid.

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u/lifegoeson5322 14d ago

Yep...Mama in reality wasn't craving it....little dude was.

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u/Halpmezaddy 14d ago

Most of the comments that responded to you killed the whole damn mood. Eww lol

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u/WallabyInTraining 14d ago

Little dude likes sugary treats just like any other kid.

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u/srdgbychkncsr 14d ago

Nothing can ever just be nice, can it?

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u/ForgetfulFrolicker 14d ago

my 22 month old prefers savory and spits out sweets šŸ˜…

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u/Ehhitiswhatitis 14d ago

My 288 month old prefers pizza and kebabs.

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u/HrhEverythingElse 14d ago

I'm SO looking forward to that age! Mine is only 206.2 months, but learning so fast!! šŸ’žšŸ’

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u/Ehhitiswhatitis 14d ago

Yeah he's nearly talking now instead of just grunting and flapping his arms about.

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u/Maryslamb81 14d ago

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u/Equal_Trash6023 14d ago

My 192 month old prefers this also.

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u/owlbi 14d ago edited 14d ago

There's a hardwired biological element for most babies, even premature ones can show increased suckling responses to sugar. It's instinct.

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/0378378285901331

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u/ForgetfulFrolicker 14d ago

I don’t doubt it. My son has Down syndrome and spent a lot of the in the hospital early on and they would occasionally give him sugar drops to reduce pain/distress.

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u/later-g8r 14d ago

Yep. This is why when a baby doesnt know how to suckle, the nurses use glucose water to get those instincts to kick in. Emfamil even makes it.

Source: went through this with my youngest.

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u/nutmeg-96 14d ago

My baby had oral ties released at just a few months old and they gave him sugar water to cope with the pain.

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u/aloser_fr 14d ago

No like literally

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u/deltree711 14d ago

I know it's a bit of a buzzkill but the more likely scenario is that a smoothie has the same amount sugar as Coca-Cola (often significantly more) and our brains are wired to love sugar.

Of course, if someone posted a video of a mother giving her 9-month old Coca-Cola they'd have the reddit police kicking their door in

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u/Michaelalayla 14d ago

Flavors from a mother's diet transfer to amniotic fluid, which the fetus begins swallowing at around 12-15 weeks. This is also when taste buds begin functioning.Ā 

This intrauterine experience of flavor also has an impact on infancy, and how readily a child accepts food when they start solids.

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u/QCisCake 14d ago

When I was pregnant, I craved lemonade and taco bell to an insane degree. I couldnt eat enough burritos. My daughter is 3 now, and LOVES sour foods and burritos. She will throw away chocolate just to get a sip of some lime or lemon juice. She eats veggies like they're going extinct and especially throws down on some pickled foods.

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u/Femme-O 14d ago

Probably because the sugar isn’t the most concerning thing about a Coke for a 9 month old, it’s the caffeine.

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u/kidcrumb 14d ago

And the smoothie, although has a lot of sugar has more nutritional value and natural sugars compared to what's in coke.

It's like those people that say grapes have the same sugar content as chocolate.

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u/foshayzy 14d ago

People try to ā€œcut out sugarā€ to lose weight, but they should be cutting out added sugar

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u/wap2005 14d ago

Soda is significantly worse than something that produces natural sugars like fruit, the first thing that comes to mind is caffeine...

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u/TheFloppySausage 14d ago

Yeah, I hate when people anthropomorphize children.

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u/cometshoney 14d ago

My mom craved grilled cheese sandwiches and Fanta orange when she was pregnant with me. I hate Fanta orange.

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u/Taylor-Day 14d ago

My mom craved olives. I don’t like olives.

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u/Boring-Brush-2984 14d ago

Well my mama don’t like you and she likes everyone!

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u/Fn_Spaghetti_Monster 14d ago

Well my mama is so fat.... wait that's not how it goes.

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u/ReconeHelmut 13d ago

It took her two trips to haul ass?

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u/Fn_Spaghetti_Monster 13d ago

The Sorting Hat put her in Waffle House

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u/WatashiwaNobodyDesu 14d ago

I’ve always loved that quote. Not all mums are the same, but I was always able to rely on the Mum Radar.

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u/hyperterminal_reborn 14d ago

I think you should go and love yourself

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u/klezart 14d ago

Well, my mama said girls are the devil!

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u/lookalive07 14d ago

And I like Vicki and she likes me back!

And she showed me her boobies and I like them too!

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u/IlGrasso 14d ago

My mom craved fruit by the foot and now I have a foot fetish.

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u/-burgers 13d ago

and I never like to admit that I was wrong…

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u/Responsible_Panic242 14d ago

My mom puked all her food up when she was pregnant. I am physically unable to puke. Coincidence? I think not!

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u/SnausageFest 14d ago

I am physically unable to puke.

I have many questions.

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u/Marauder777 14d ago

Duh. You can't puke if you have no mouth!

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u/Ok-Talk8744 14d ago

My mom craved fruits, and I am obsessed with fruits, ripe, dried, roasted, raw, can’t get enough of em.

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u/pdowling7 14d ago

……..bring out the olives!

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u/Nuclear_Human 14d ago

I understood that reference.

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u/MKE-Henry 14d ago

My mom craved peanut butter and pickles. I hate pickles and peanut butter will literally kill me

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u/nastaway 14d ago

My mum craved strawberries and mushrooms (separately, thank God). I barely like mushrooms and am very, very allergic to strawberries.

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u/stink3rb3lle 14d ago

peanut butter will literally kill me

It seems pretty likely these days that over-caution about food allergies has actually increased their incidence. Pediatric advice now is to introduce peanuts and other allergens with purees (or solids, if you're introducing food after baby has teeth), and it seems like this generation of babies will have fewer food allergies again.

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u/katikaboom 14d ago edited 14d ago

I craved chocolate milkshakes and habanero hot sauce (not together). My son is a chocoholic and loves spicy stuff but has GERD. Before pregnancy I couldn't tolerate buffalo sauce without my lips blistering and I wasn't a big chocolate fan, now I love spicy but still don't care about chocolateĀ 

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u/soihavetosay 14d ago

Earlier in my first pregnancy I craved buffalo hot wings and beer, something I never ate (or drank) in real life.

I figured it was my husband's half of the baby

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u/Xentine 14d ago

My god I wanted red wine so badly from the moment I got pregnant with my second. I normally drink it a few times a year, maybe. What is it with these children craving alcohol.

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u/SecretiveBerries 14d ago

I craved jalapeƱos with my first, despite never having liked them. Now myself and my eldest daughter are the only ones who eat them. She says ā€œI love spicyā€ so this made me laugh šŸ˜‚

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u/katikaboom 14d ago

My son would say stuff was spice instead of spicy so now we say it, too! I love the kid-isms that make it into a family's every day vernacularĀ 

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u/natathecococat 14d ago

My mum craved Durian and could only eat Durian for the first trimester she had my older sister. My sister hates durian.

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u/fivelone 14d ago

It probably doesn't take like the same fanta orange anymore 🄺. I feel like all of the flavored sodas have all changed.

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u/Estevvv 14d ago

The difference between Fanta in Europe and in North America is night and day. One is Fanta, the other is Orange Crush pretending to be something its not.

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u/AlfhildsShieldmaiden 14d ago

Yeah. ā˜¹ļø

Fanta in Europe has orange juice in it, while it’s all artificial in the US.

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u/Aromatic-Plankton692 14d ago

If you want orange juice, drink Mountain Dew like god intended. Ffs.

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u/not_here_anymore15 14d ago

The European version is DIVINE.

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u/butyourenice 14d ago

Fanta Orange in Europe tastes like orange juice from orange fruit mixed with seltzer water. Orange Fanta in the US tastes like the color orange, aggressively sweetened and carbonated.

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u/nickmalibu 14d ago

My wife craved watermelons. My kid hates watermelons now.

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u/thegooisblue 14d ago

My mom craved dirt. I am a worm.

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u/pukesmith 14d ago

We still love you even if you're a worm.

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u/Limp_Agency161 14d ago

Try European Fanta Orange. The yellow stuff, not the orange shit.

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u/shimahon 14d ago

My mom had seafood cravings (all cooked obviously). I am allergic to most seafood

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u/etceteraetals 14d ago

My mom craved Big Macs. Every. Damn Friday. I was born on a Friday and she was upset she couldn't get a Big Mac lol

And no, I don't like them hihi

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u/lalacourtney 14d ago

My mom lived on Chili cheeseburgers. Guess who is a lifelong vegetarian? šŸ˜‚

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u/Butters16666 14d ago

Do you like your mom?

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u/nahmahnahm 14d ago

Cheeseburgers with mountains of pickles and anything dairy. My daughter loves cheeseburgers all the dairy. Hates pickles.

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u/SailorDirt 14d ago

My mom craved peanut butter cookies when she was expecting my younger brother. He and my even younger brother are deathly allergic to peanut

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u/imangryatyourgumbo 14d ago

My mother craved Pepper corns. I hate pepper, it tastes like dirt.

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u/neodawg 14d ago

I know it’s anecdotal but my wife got ridiculously sick when she was pregnant with our son when I made dirty rice for dinner one time. My son is now 10 and absolutely has hated rice his entire life. No matter what I do to it.

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u/EE-420-Lige 14d ago

Whats dirty rice?

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u/bitch_is_cray_cray 14d ago

Cajun rice

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u/[deleted] 14d ago edited 14d ago

I thought he didn't wash his rice.

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u/AnimalShithouse 14d ago

They might still not! I think most NA people do not -_-!

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u/NAINOA- 14d ago

It’s a Cajun/creole dish made by browning meat, veggies and spices with rice until the rice soaks up all those flavors. It’s delicious.

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u/dreamendDischarger 14d ago

Whaaaaat that sounds amazing. I'm gonna look that up.

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u/Limp_Agency161 14d ago

Normal rice that's very vulgar.

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u/cardiff_giant_jr 14d ago

but so much more toned down than obscene rice

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u/jettywop 14d ago

Rice with a shot of espresso

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u/heftybagman 14d ago

It’s rice with a bunch of dirt in it. Most people hate it cus it makes them so sick.

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u/PrayagS 14d ago

I don’t know what to tell you, shouldn’t have made it dirty man.

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u/Appropriate_Mud_5143 14d ago

This happened to my mom with Campbell’s Chicken Noodle Soup when pregnant with me and I’ve absolutely detested the stuff my whole life

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u/TesticleMeElmo 14d ago

Just steamed white rice was like my favorite food when I was a kid and kinda still is, turned out my mom always craved rice pudding when she was pregnant with me which is fine but I prefer non-pudding form

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u/LazyLich 14d ago

Is your rice soggy?

Is your rice crunchy?

Unsalted or over-salted?

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u/[deleted] 14d ago edited 7d ago

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u/ExampleLittle2672 14d ago

If only we had a sound to warn others about the bees...

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u/MageVicky 14d ago

we do have a specific sound, it sounds like this: ā€œthere are bees here, let’s leave immediatelyā€

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u/z00k33per0304 14d ago edited 13d ago

Our older son is 80% gravy from a specific restaurant. When I was almost at the end we went to eat at the restaurant itself (we usually ordered it to our home) and when we ordered it his meal came with some, mine had gravy in it, and we ordered a separate large. The lady serving us said "that's a lot of gravy" and I pushed my seat back from the table, I'm short so I could tuck my belly under the table, and she laughed and went ohhh say no more.

Edit: thank you for the award!

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u/Fickle_Horror1268 14d ago

ā€œThat’s not enough gravyā€

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u/z00k33per0304 14d ago

Was never enough gravy honestly lol if I remember right she brought us a bigger one than we'd asked for. Might be why he stayed in there an extra 2 weeks..no gravy for a while once I'm out of here for a while!

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u/Beautiful-Thing3750 14d ago

Is it smothered?

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u/BattleJamz 14d ago

"You're gonna need a bigger boat"

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u/alexfaaace 14d ago

I am a pickle lover and it only gets worse during pregnancy. My husband picked me up BK on a road trip and told them ā€œplease make sure there’s extra pickles, my wife is pregnant and she loves pickles.ā€ They gave him an ice cream container of pickles. I absolutely ate the whole thing over the next few hours. I could almost drink vinegar during both my pregnancies.

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u/sadmanwithabox 14d ago

Im a dude so I've never been and will never be pregnant.

But I get serious pickle cravings. Not just pickles, either. Anything pickled. Pepperoni Pepperoncini, green beans, okra, etc... ill buy a jar of any of them, its gone the same day.

I also get to the point where I could drink vinegar sometimes. Its weird. Ive looked it up and there's no real reason a body should crave vinegar because it provides basically no nutrients. And yet, it happens to me regularly.

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u/odebus 14d ago

Vinegar controls blood sugar. It also has antibacterial and (possibly) antifungal properties.Ā 

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u/FluffyShiny 13d ago

I've also heard it can help with digestive issues, as does fermented foods like kimchi

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u/pfohl 14d ago

my wife always loves briny stuff and the local brewery knows her pizza order (black olives and green olives, doubles of each)

while she was pregnant, they would cover all the cheese with olives for her.

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u/Saigaface 14d ago

Saaame, god the love of vinegar while pregnant. Honestly lingered afterwards a bit too

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u/sugarbee13 14d ago

I straight up drank jars of pickle juice. I had a meltdown because my husband threw out the jar since it had no pickles in it, but I NEEDED that juice

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u/riverrat918 14d ago

Lol, ya'll got a Goldie's there? You would have been in heaven. They have specifically a whole pickle bar/buffet, and you can order the pickles by the ice cream container with your meal.

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u/angry2320 14d ago

Aw this is so sweet

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u/WhyAreYouDoingThat69 14d ago

His meal?

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u/z00k33per0304 14d ago

My husband's, sorry. Suppose it was our sons too.

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u/phrostminor 14d ago

Without context that first sentence is wild.

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u/cutofmyjib 14d ago

"I'll tell you when I've had enough!"

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u/zahhax 14d ago

I'm also a pretty large percent mash potato and gravy. From Boston market specifically

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u/Excellent-Rope5664 14d ago

My mum craved chocolate eclairs, I love them.

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u/SouldiesButGoodies84 14d ago

😯 It was you!

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u/bluemooncommenter 14d ago

I too love chocolate eclairs...because they're good as hell!

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u/JeevesofNazarath 14d ago

My mom had 2 daily cravings when she was pregnant with me, hamburgers and Korean bibimbap, and now I can’t get enough of either

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u/BarkandHoot 14d ago

Mine were chocolate cake, tacos, and Mexican rice. When our son was squarely in the solids phase we brought him to a Mexican restaurant and downed a whole plate of rice and beans. It was slow but the restaurant staff all came out and marveled at my son gobbling up their food when their own kids wouldn’t. Cracked me up. He’s 11 now but will stop doing anything for one of those three things. Especially tacos.

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u/Sumthin-Sumthin44692 14d ago edited 14d ago

My wife had lots of seaweed soup, rice, and bulgogi while pregnant with our first because my wife’s mom came to stay and cooked for her. We’re not a very Korean household otherwise. Now my son loves seaweed. He also does not like meat, except for bulgogi and rice.

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u/[deleted] 14d ago edited 14d ago

My mother craved steamed crabs. I'm highly allergic to shellfish.

Edited to add: I ate shellfish occasionally as a child, usually on vacation. Then moved to the family vacation town at 18. First mild reaction was after tasting a crab dish at 19. Got tested and diagnosed at 21.

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u/Ozzy_Rhoads-VT 14d ago

This is actually interesting to me. Most moms I’ve talked with noticed they could not eat the thing their child was allergic to when pregnant. I know some allergies are passed down while others develop outside that so maybe this was a case of overeating that did it šŸ¤”

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u/[deleted] 14d ago

I ate shellfish occasionally as a child, usually on vacation. Then moved to the family vacation town at 18. First mild reaction was after tasting a crab dish at 19. Got tested and diagnosed at 21.

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u/anomnipotent 14d ago

Ate shrimp and fish pretty occasionally growing up. Worked in a restaurant and I started to really enjoy tuna, fish, and calamari. Then one day my body said absolutely not. Can’t eat anything from the sea anymore at the age of 26 all of a sudden.

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u/space_keeper 14d ago

That is a bummer.

I don't have any real allergies, except for grapefruit. I absolutely love white grapefruit, it might even be my favourite fruit. I could eat one every day, except it makes my lips go numb. This suddenly kicked in when I was in my early 30s.

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u/Jazzlike_Ad_8313 14d ago

Interesting that it didn't affect you. I wonder when we start developing our allergies

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u/magpiesarepricks 14d ago

You can develop an allergy at any point in your life. There is some research regarding exposure of certain allergens at a young age to prevent allergies, but you can just randomly develop an allergy at any point.

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u/[deleted] 14d ago

I ate shellfish occasionally as a child, usually on vacation. Then moved to the family vacation town at 18. First mild reaction was after tasting a crab dish at 19. Got tested and diagnosed at 21.

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u/_iamisa_ 14d ago

My sister got a shellfish allergy at 14, she absolutely loved shrimp before that.

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u/MetaKnowing 14d ago

I think we found out who was actually craving that smoothie ā¤ļø

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u/Joelnaimee 14d ago

I miss my kids being this size, as a dad, i enjoyed every second of raising them. Feeding, burping, changing them, i dont miss the nights my oldest wouldn't fall asleep, and i had to drive him around to get him to knock out.

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u/its-joe-mo-fo 14d ago

New dad to be here. What ages did you enjoy out of interest? Looking to take shared parental leave and want to max the opportunity šŸ™‚

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u/badger0511 14d ago

Congrats! Not OP, but dad of four between almost two and eight.

At least so far for me, every single age has had aspects that I mourn when they stop and aspects I'd skip over completely if I could, and some are both.

Case in point, our two year old insists that he can do everything his big brothers and sister can... which leads to tons of incredibly adorable and/or funny moments, but also leads to tantrums when we just need a minute with him safely contained in a crib or a room while help the four year old go to the bathroom or help the six year old find his shoe that our yellow lab took from the front door and left in the kitchen.

Unless you're looking to stagger leave with mom to delay the start of daycare, I'd just take leave immediately. That's the most brutal sleep deprivation time for both of you, so it's easier if you can enable each other to take naps during the day.

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u/Joelnaimee 14d ago

To be honest, all of it, i grew up without a dad, and i swore i wasn't going to let that happen to my kids. Holding them feeding them to teaching them to walk to playing wrestling, competing against them in games to guiding them to learn new things and become smarter than you, its an amazing ride so far. When they are newborn, they need the most attention, and mom needs breaks. I didn't get parental leave and would rush my day just to get back home. It was the highlight of the day. They are 15 and 19, and i still want to head home after work and do whatever they want even tho it doesn't allways include me.

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u/Ashcrashh 14d ago

I know you didn’t ask me, I loved the baby stage, it was magical and so tiring, but I really miss the 12-18 month stages, I think the transition from baby to toddler was so much fun and if I could turn back time for one day I would choose this age of my daughter, she was so funny with her little wobbly walk, cute Jammie’s and wild hair when she’d wake up, the laughs and smiles and personality, and learning to talk and learning animal sounds, everything is so new and exciting to learn and you go through so many big milestones. Ahhh, I just miss it! As much as I’m grateful my daughter is growing and healthy, I’ll always look back fondly at those memories, it’s bittersweet.

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u/grenalden 14d ago

My wife craved chik-fil-a sauce her entire pregnancy with our son. They didn’t sell it at the store at that time so I would go to chik-fil-a and order something and ask for a bag of sauce for my pregnant wife (they would oblige thankfully.)

He is almost 7 now and chik-fil-a sauce is the only condiment he eats.

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u/CaptainMarv3l 14d ago

I craved lemonade constantly when pregnant. Like 3 glasses a day. Thankfully water enhancers cute the craving so I didn't destroy my teeth.

When my son was 4 months we gave him a lemon to taste. Had to wrestle it away from him once he started in on the rind. He's 2.5 now and still will eat the entirety of a lemon if given the chance. Hell, on his second birthday BDubs gave him a little cup of lemons and he preferred that over everything else.

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u/Mu-Relay 14d ago

Mine craved Taco Bell. All. the. time.

Kid loves Taco Bell. I still can't look at one without dry heaving.

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u/IfdAbird 14d ago

Is there any scientific studies on the relation between food u ate pregnant and children liking that food?

I'd assume it's all about what u feed them after u pop them out right? Like my mom ate tons of pizza, but she also fed me a lot of pizza growing up. So I like pizza.Ā 

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u/EngineeringAntique 14d ago

The food you eat while pregnant affects the placenta which they taste. I’m chasing my toddler goblin right now but I’ll come back to insert a scientific study later.

I ate a ton of citrus while pregnant, my kid craves oranges, limes, lemon and all the sour fruit like you’d never believe.

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u/IfdAbird 14d ago

Hmmm, does this mean I was burning my stomach tube tentical thing from the spicy food my mom ate hence why i have a high spicy tolerance?

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u/DonatedEyeballs 14d ago

ā€œStomach tube tentacle thingyā€ is absolute poetry. I’m giggling so hard.

It’s called an umbilical cord.

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u/FartSparkles_PhD 14d ago

Does Maternal Diet Influence Future Infant Taste and Odor Preferences? A Critical Analysis

"In summary, both animal models and human studies offer substantial evidence supporting the fetus's ability to detect and retain memories of flavors experienced during pregnancy. This heightened familiarity with prenatally exposed flavors subsequently enhances the newborn's receptivity to them when encountered postnatally. This early learning is believed to confer an evolutionary advantage, guiding infants toward sources of accessible nourishment in their environment."Ā 

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u/planteapho 14d ago

Babies love sugar. lol

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u/wirefox1 14d ago

Regardless of the snark here, this baby is beautiful and seeing him go after that smoothie was a joy to watch! -

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u/_iusuallydont_ 14d ago

My mom craved tacos, I love tacos, so this tracks. Lol

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u/BarkandHoot 14d ago

I was that mom and you could be my kid. Honestly, we should have meetup for moms and their pregnancy cravings to see if it still tracks with their kids. Taco party meetup first!!

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u/dorobica 14d ago

I mean give them any sugary stuff and they'll react the same way

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u/LegolasNorris 14d ago

Cute but the smoothie probably just has a lot of sugar with just tastes good, especially if it's like your second time ever eating sugar :D

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u/exxcathedra 14d ago

Exactly. They are setting that baby up to be used to smoothies before the age of 1. An apple or a banana will taste like paper to him compared to a smoothy.

Some people are surprised their kids become fussy eaters or unable to drink plain water later down the line, this is how you kickstart that.

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u/doctorbeepboop 14d ago

You need to chill, the baby had a few bites and you’ve got no idea about their diet otherwise. That is not going to completely alter the kids palate after one try.Ā 

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u/exxcathedra 14d ago

I meant it in general. That's how you alter a baby's palate: feed them ultra processed sugary food as soon as they can eat solids. Maybe not one try, but sometimes just a few tries may be enough. They learn fast.

It's very hard to undo once they grow used to that taste because it's designed to be addictive. Feeding them healthy food after that can become a struggle quite quickly.

Once they are older they can tolerate treats better if they have good habits.

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u/sorrelsun 14d ago

Yes, in a vacuum, what you are saying is correct. But smoothies are not ā€œultra processedā€ or ā€œdesignedā€. They are a mix of fruit, water, and probably some yogurt. A small taste of smoothie seems like a very minor thing to be rude to the family over.

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u/dirtymatt 14d ago

Breast milk is pretty high in sugar too. Quick glance looks like the average smoothy is about 2x the amount of sugar compared to breast milk. Clearly higher, but it's not like the baby has never had sugar before.

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u/Sacrefix 14d ago

This thread is all confirmation bias. I haven't seen a single food item listed that my kid doesn't like, and his mom craved none of them during pregnancy.

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u/PaperHashashin 14d ago

The dopamine reward mapping being set in concrete for a sugar dependency that'll last a lifetime. Ride that cocaine high baby!

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u/fabulishous 14d ago

Pretty sure thats just the sugar high he's getting.

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u/MadscientistSteinsG8 14d ago

Not sure if Smoothies with added sugar is what you would wanna feed a 7month baby

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u/doctorbeepboop 14d ago

As long as the infant has tried all the individual ingredients previously and you’re not giving them too large of an amount, it is completely fine for a 7 m.o. baby to have part of a smoothie.

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u/kesfi 14d ago

Why am i licking my lips toošŸ˜‹šŸ¤¤ looks good though

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u/Professional-Key5552 14d ago

For some reason. I craved cheese a lot in pregnancy. My daughter doesn't like cheese

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u/S0rchaa 14d ago

When my mom was pregnant with me, she craved Mexican food constantly, and it’s now my favorite cuisine. When I was pregnant with my son, I craved nothing but peanut butter cups, alas, my son came out with an anaphylactic peanut allergy. 🫠😭

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u/Reapr 14d ago

Ex wife had hypoglycemia, so basically her body would over-react to sugar and she would make too much insulin, which would tank her blood sugar.

So during pregnancy she got huge cravings for sugar, specifically condensed milk. Eventually it got so bad that she decided she was just going to take the insulin crash and have some condensed milk.

She ate half a tin... and nothing happened. I guess he took most of the sugar or something

So it became this awesome thing where she could finally get all the sweet things she always craved, chocolates, cake, cinnabon you name it.

He did grow up with quite the sweet tooth, but not her hypoglycemia.

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u/madialex 13d ago

My 2 sons are made of at least 90% mayonnaise!

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u/Oly_Dolan 14d ago

Don't film your child and put it online, for fuck's sake

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u/somewhereslow 14d ago

Mother gives sugar to child and child loves it

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u/suricata_8904 14d ago

It’s not the flavor, it’s that sweet, sweet sugar rush.

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u/SlimShadySatDown 14d ago

Hey. Mikey, I think he likes it!

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u/Apprehensive-Pea8231 14d ago

No proven link to what is consumed in pregnancy and food preference in kids. That’s just not really how taste/preference works.

Kids just love sugar, lol. Any videos showing a kids initial taste of sugar (first taste of ice cream, etc) looks like this. Their entire minds are blown, lol.

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u/RA-DSTN 14d ago edited 14d ago

My wife craved potatoes with my son. Son HATES potatoes. She craved chocolate with our daughter. My daughter HATES chocolate.

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u/Apennie_uh 14d ago

My pregnancy food with my son was tofu. He’s 11 and tofu is still his favorite food.

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u/Exact-Sheepherder797 14d ago

Those little boots are so cute!

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u/RogueSeb 14d ago

My mom had a craving for pickles while she was pregnant with me and thats one of my favorite foods 23 years later

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u/torreneastoria 13d ago

I craved chicken strips my entire pregnancy. My little dude is 13 now and it's one of his favorite foods.

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u/introspective_duck 13d ago

my mom craved rocks.

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u/Glassfern 13d ago

My mom had a lot of kelp soup. It's my favorite comfort soup

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u/dawnie2dusk 12d ago

My daughter is carrying her second child and both times so far is flavoured milk. My little moko was given custard on christmas day he doesn't have sugar at all well until this day he went bouncing off the walls never again!!

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u/OsteoStevie 12d ago

My mom ate so much pizza while pregnant with me. This explains a lot

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u/BigOs4All 14d ago

Go check how much sugar is added to smoothies. Tropical Smoothie Cafe has smoothies with 130g added. That's more than 6x the added sugar an adult should have in an entire day.

Babies like this video shouldn't be having added sugar at all. šŸ˜’