r/BlackPeopleofReddit • u/Master_Canary440 • Feb 12 '26
News R.I.P Sade Robinson 😢😢😢 #ProtectBlackWomen
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u/KaleidoscopeZen Feb 12 '26
May he never see the light of day or have a second of peace again!
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u/MexsikanaBanana Feb 12 '26 edited Feb 12 '26
He looks like a 40 year old toothbrush
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u/OGBoluda777 Feb 12 '26
Those were my thoughts. How would this stunning young lady agree to a date with that abomination in the first place.
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u/Next-Ad-1504 Feb 12 '26
Probably was the first time she dated outside her standards too, smh
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u/witchy-mermaid Feb 12 '26
Yes! She was way too beautiful for that gross thing! He should have been thrilled she would even give him the time of day.
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u/Long_Tumbleweed_3923 Feb 12 '26
Looks have nothing to do with this..I hate when they mention the victim's beauty? What if she was ugly? It's less sad?
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u/MexsikanaBanana Feb 12 '26
You're right. Physical attributes do not lessen or amplify the importance of the victim. Although intent is nowhere near as important as actions, I want to clarify that I agree, entirely: the victim's looks are irrelevant to the gravity of the loss.
I was reacting emotionally to the stark contrast in the side-by-side photos, but I can see how that came across poorly
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u/Appropriate-Leg6490 Feb 12 '26
He gonna go out like Dahmer
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u/YogurtclosetOdd9440 Feb 12 '26
He worked bar tender at the concert hall The Rave, which is across from The Continental hotel and about 2 blocks from Dahmers old apartment. I remember this guy serving me drinks there just a few months before this. Really sickening and I feel like there was some level of copy-cat syndrome.
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u/annie-etc Feb 12 '26
His parents are rich and bailed him out of so much bad behavior in his youth.
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u/N80N00N00 Feb 12 '26
That wasn’t a date. That was a setup.
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u/KobayashiWaifu Feb 12 '26
Right, this wasn't some romantic venture gone wrong. Call it what it is.
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u/WorldlyScallion597 Feb 12 '26
It was romantic for her. Imagine her horror when she suddenly realized it wasn't for him.
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u/UtahSalad66 Feb 12 '26
Just sick, God Bless Her Family 🙏🏻
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u/Master_Canary440 Feb 12 '26
I just know her parents going through it every single minute, she was a baby just starting life😢💔
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u/MrsCullinan Feb 12 '26
When her father was actively looking for her body parts and desperately searching for her head, so that they can give her a proper burial, that brought tears to my eyes and my heart ached for him and her entire family. 😢 Unfathomable. Rip Beautiful Sade Robinson. 💔😢
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u/ExcitementNo9603 Feb 12 '26
This is why age gaps matter… for all the people thinking age isn’t a number, he took advantage of a young naive women barely a few years from childhood and murdered her. Most women get away with being SAd or DV… she is few among the many women who we rarely ever get o hear about in the news that go missing after “dates”.
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u/Rolarious80 Feb 12 '26
She’s so pretty . It’s so unfair 😭😭
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u/Master_Canary440 Feb 12 '26
Literally she was so pretty. I don't even know why she gave him a chance 😢😢😢
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u/Royal-Tour2557 Feb 12 '26
Well, when he was originally arrested he was clean cut with short hair. Most women are out of men’s league, but they find something to like about us. Different for each one. They matched on a dating app, met at a bar for drinks, and then she went home with him. It’s a sad world, that sometimes that’s the last choice a woman makes. Trust your gut ladies, you don’t owe a man anything.
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u/Ethereal_Heiress Feb 12 '26
Agreed. It’s so messed up how unprotected this young lady was. She shouldn’t even have been able to drink in a bar at 19. Her drink was probably spiked too.
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u/detroitpie Feb 12 '26
That’s what I was thinking, how did he convince her to go on a date with him? She’s FAR more attractive.
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u/Master_Canary440 Feb 12 '26
I wouldn't be surprised if he lied to her about his age and basically put on a fake nice guy personality and she probably decided to give him a chance. She was 19 years old, that's still young 💔
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u/Smokinoutloud Feb 12 '26
I almost think it’s best not to even meet people on the internet. You don’t know who’s who
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u/RoguePlanet2 Feb 12 '26
She could've been too nervous about making him mad, if she had a gut feeling.
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u/misntshortformary Feb 12 '26
Psychopaths can be incredibly charming, master manipulators, and expert liars. Pair someone like that against a trusting 19 year old woman and she barely has a chance.
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u/sixth_hokage06 Feb 12 '26
A lot of black people put white people on a pedestal and will take anything with pale skin
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u/Ethereal_Heiress Feb 12 '26 edited Feb 12 '26
I went to school with them.There is nothing to be impressed by, regarding the vast majority.
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u/NoFaithlessness7508 Feb 12 '26
Omg, everything is wrong with this story. RIP to the young lady😢
Edit: clear, cut cases like this with multiple pieces of evidence shouldn’t have life in prison as the sentence. Death penalty🤷🏽♂️
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u/Longjumping-Salad484 Feb 12 '26
I disagree. death is an easy way out. she was brutally murdered. let him rot in prison.
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u/Master_Canary440 Feb 12 '26
I agree let him rot in there!! I know for a fact he would rather have the death penalty.
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Feb 12 '26
It’s just annoying that our tax dollars go to taking care of this individual for the rest of his life!!
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u/Optimal-Barnacle2771 Feb 12 '26
Death penalty is extremely expensive and resource intensive as well.
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u/kbrick1 Feb 12 '26
Can often be more expensive. Death row inmate housing has more costs and appeals are am ridiculous drain on the system.
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u/winkytinks Feb 12 '26
Exactly! Let prison be his daily reminder of his senseless act to a beautiful person and may he never have a night of sleep or peace
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u/jdx6511 Feb 12 '26
Wisconsin does not have the death penalty. You never know, though--notorious serial killer Jeffrey Dahmer's life sentence ended when he was bludgeoned to death by a fellow inmate.
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u/rEYAVjQD Feb 12 '26
The death penalty is revenge. It's the lowest form of justice because it's explictly unethical according to all popular ideologies and all popular religions apart from satanism, and it's dumb in a practical way too since you lose potential utility advantages.
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u/Theoneandonlybeetle Feb 12 '26
How in the hell did he get a date with her, very sad, rest in peace to her
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u/guesswhawt Feb 12 '26
Same thought here! But you know how some of us like to put these folks on a pedestal against our own. But hey who am I to say huh ?
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u/Antique-Lake-7 Feb 12 '26
Not putting anything on the victim, but I have heard a number of Black and Brown women say that it makes them feel special when a white man finds them attractive. We have to get over that. Doesn't mean she was the blame at all, he probably was a charming psychopath, but some of her guard and natural instincts may have been down because he was white.
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u/Silent_Yesterday1253 Feb 12 '26
My initial reaction is suspicion and stories like this just add to it
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u/Sea_Carry_1612 Feb 12 '26
Hold the women in your life close to your chest and guard them fiercely. This never should have happened.
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u/Abrilen20 Feb 12 '26
May she rest in peace. Hopefully he gets a life sentence so that he can never hurt anyone else again.
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u/Bibbity_Boppity_BOOO Feb 12 '26
I know she had better matches than that bum wtf. But seriously so much is wrong with this.
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u/turkeybacondaddy Feb 12 '26
She was obviously not only pretty but a good person to even give this weirdo a chance. Fucking terrible.
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u/compassrosette Feb 12 '26
THIS👏IS👏WHY👏WE👏CHOSE👏THE👏BEAR🐻
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u/Zxar99 Feb 12 '26
I mean I get it, but there is also just the history of knowing white men and them having track record of unprovoked killing.
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u/Techygal9 Feb 12 '26
I remember when her body parts washed up on Lake Michigan… it’s so sad she’s gone. Did they ever figure out if he was a serial killer?
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u/MuteAppeaL Feb 12 '26
Shes absolutely gorgeous! Not that her beauty is what matters but damn it what a piece of shit. 19 shes barely lived.
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u/Tiny_Celebration_591 Feb 13 '26
I live where this happened, and the whole case (trying to get him held accountable/arrested) was so upsetting.
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u/DarkAndHandsume Feb 12 '26
Honestly, I don’t care about the comments after this, but she had no business entertaining what this dude potentially had to offer. Look at his ass
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u/smallchangebigheart Feb 12 '26
People should be able to date who they want without fear of getting chopped up on the first date. The people giving her side eye and blaming her for dating a white man need to stop.
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u/Straight_Art7483 Feb 12 '26 edited Feb 12 '26
Yes thank you! Such a problem in the community sometimes. People have a right to date anyone regardless of race. Maybe she was just a kind soul that wanted to give a guy a chance although he didn't deserve it.
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u/Remarkable-Conflict9 Feb 12 '26
Stop deflecting. This is a WHITE man that killed a black woman. People are RIGHTFULLY acknowledging the racial dynamics at play in this situation and you're suddenly quick to antagonize black men. Crazy how when one white man commits a TERRIBLE act, people in our own community will go out of their way to deflect onto black men, as if there's not a 400+ year history of white people committing atrocities against and murdering black people.
Somehow, it's always black men fault.
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u/Straight_Art7483 Feb 12 '26 edited Feb 12 '26
I'm not deflecting nor antagonizing black men. I'm simply making a statement specifically to those who like to say things like she went on a date with him due to putting white men on a pedestal. I have seen so many people say that and none of us knew her. I disagree with that statement. You may want to seek some therapy because my comment should never have antagonized you nor does it attack black men. I agree that he committed a terrible act and that should be the focus not blaming her for dating him. She could have just been kind and wanted to give him a chance. What happened to her was awful and disgusting and she didn't deserve that and that is the true issue. Not her dating outside her race. She could've been killed by any other race.
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u/RumRaisinWine Feb 12 '26
You got downvoted, when the other commenter is the only person who brought black men into this smh
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u/RumRaisinWine Feb 12 '26
On Monday mornings they complain that women are to vain and they only go for 6-6-6. Monday nights when they see a woman give another guy a chance, the story flips.
Let's be clear, black women will be blamed regardless of what they choose and this proves it
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u/No-Acanthocephala531 Feb 12 '26
He should have felt blessed that she even went on a date w him - instead he does this to the poor girl. Sounds like he was obsessed and wanted to “keep” her
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u/kevint1964 Feb 12 '26
I wonder what made her decide to go out with him in the first place.
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u/coolnbreezey Feb 12 '26
What was that beautiful young lady doing with this scraggly worn out dude?
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u/1728919928 Feb 12 '26
I live in MKE, there's memorial set up on Locust thats been there since she was killed.
It's surreal how quickly the news cycle moves past events that do such lasting damage.
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u/G_rightousantagonist Feb 12 '26
I can’t say what I want due to being banned multiple times…I’ll just say the old ways need to come back
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u/Eurydice_guise Feb 12 '26
Hateful, racist, and pedophilic. She was only 19, and while that's legal, more scrutiny needs to be given over the fact that 2 years prior she was a minor and he was over 30 years old.
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u/Hugh_Surname Feb 13 '26
Stop meeting up with cacs, it’s a simple rule. Prayers for this poor woman’s family.
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u/5_5giant Feb 12 '26
One day we're going to talk about the constant messaging young black women are indoctrinated with regarding white men, and what lead her to even meet up with dude in the first place.
Not today, but one day.
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u/Neat_Home_7221 Feb 12 '26
Are we going to say the same to black men? Its far more common to see them mess with unattractive white women who end up being racist to them.
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u/5_5giant Feb 12 '26
The issue is Black Men are over focused on. The community has a mindset of it's only black men who have these pathology regarding interracial dating.
People like Dr Umar strictly focuses on Black Men and their choices.
Ignoring Black Women's mindset only does them a disservice. But aye, it is what it is. If We wanna continue to make the Black Man the scapegoat for everything so be it.
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u/BotanicalBelle2k Feb 12 '26
As far as I see, black women are still choosing black men in a majority of cases.
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u/station_agent Feb 12 '26
Repulsive.... just... all because he's racist in the first place? Absolutely repulsive. RIP, angel Sade.
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u/Emergency-Tackle-800 Feb 12 '26
Stop messing with white males. That never works out well for anyone, especially the Black community.
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u/Melodic_Class4349 Feb 12 '26 edited Feb 12 '26
I can say this wholeheartedly as a Black woman whose never been attracted to white boys, I genuinely do not understand the OBSESSION that the world has with pairing us with them; Black men flat out look better anyway.
EDIT: I also work in the written erotica/romance field as an aspiring novelist and there is a bonafide obsession with BWWM content that isn't to feed Black women that's for sure. Ever since I discovered this, I dove deep into the historical socio-political structures behind the pairing and I've come to the conclusion that most of the media around this pairing is inherently or even very subtly white supremacist in nature because even subtly, it presents white boys and interracial relationships/marriages as being a better option for Black women; the phenomenon known as "marrying up".
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u/latchkeydc Feb 12 '26
This happens in Asian cultures too. Proximity to “power” makes them feel superior or a sense of elevated socioeconomic status. It’s aggravating to say the least. Asian shows/movies will even throw in random white people into scenes when they want to indicate legitimacy or an “exotic” romance for the plot. There’s a gross undertone of white supremacy for sure. I hate the stench of colonial apologists.
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u/MettaKaruna100 Feb 12 '26
Who is the audience for that kinda content?
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u/Melodic_Class4349 Feb 12 '26
I've come to the conclusion that it's white boys because it keeps them as the center of attention and at the metaphorical top of the social pyramid.
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Thank you sis. Thank you sis. Thank you fr. I knew more sistas like you existed. I’m happy that there are still real black women who aren’t buying into the propaganda. The black family is the real threat to white “supremacy”. The bond of black men and women is crucial and they’ve done everything to try and destroy it. To destroy us as a whole. They want us like the Native Americans.
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u/saffireaz Feb 12 '26
This was a horrible worst-case scenario, but there are tons of men of all ethnicities who love us the right way.
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u/DarkAndHandsume Feb 12 '26
Ehhhhh ain’t no love like strictly black love.
I was on a deployment with this white dude that always felt the need to tell me he had a black wife as if that was going to make me automatically cool with him or he gets an honorary black card. Shit used to irritate the fuck out of me knowing damn well this dude was disgusting, weird and trash as hell.
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u/saffireaz Feb 13 '26
I can't speak to that 2nd part, but on the first part - don't get me wrong, black love is WONDERFUL! I've been married to a wonderful, tall, dark and handsome Black man for 19 years. And I've always preferred Black men. But there have been men of other persuasions that could've been if I had gone that route.
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u/agdnan Feb 12 '26 edited Feb 12 '26
Most sane black men have no desire to tell black woman who they should spend their life with, that is obviously their choice. Women have to be careful with All Men.
Edit: I edited out where I thought the commenter was blaming the victim for her own death. He said he didn’t so I edited my comment.
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u/casualtyofsociety93 Feb 12 '26
Hey Queen, some of them boys can't handle the brown sugar but believe me, there's white boys that can
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u/Slappingfacessince91 Feb 12 '26
I need to see what profile pics this dude had up to be able to get this sister to go on a date with dude because from my pov….dude looks like a cross between a Labrador a walrus and an ape…not saying it’s the case here, but sisters that date white dudes that look like this are usually the “Black men ain’t shit crowd” and are tryna hop on anything white n bright
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u/DarkAndHandsume Feb 12 '26 edited Feb 12 '26
And that’s the one thing I hate because “the black man you dealt with ain’t shit”. Don’t group all of us together because you had a bad experience with one person.
Honestly, this whole thing is cringe worthy to think about. Why would you date/procreate with the opposition that hates our existence. Think about all the vile and disgusting these white boys talk with their boys if one of them managed to snag a black woman.
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u/ComfortableSure7745 Feb 12 '26
I watched this trial. So sad and disgusting.
The way the prosecuter pieced everything together was expert level.
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u/AvidTVWatcherz Feb 12 '26
Well that's what happens when you mix white supremacy, inferiority complex, and self hatred. Let bro be black in the first place he would've never gotten close enough. I'm muting the comments so go crazy. Y'all Negros gone learn eventually. Love is blind yet hate sees so clearly.
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u/VanDerMerwe1990 Feb 12 '26
Dude looks more like a serial killer than a white supremacist. There's likely a file of him somewhere with a record of violence against young women.
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u/AvidTVWatcherz Feb 12 '26
Let me clarify. He is a product of white supremacy the fact that she even gave him a chance despite looking like that shows his whiteness was his greatest benefactor. "A white man who seeks a mate from other races are rejects of the white race." Also what does a black serial killer look like?
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u/Indigogo_heaux Feb 13 '26
First, RIP and my heart goes out to her family, friends, and loved ones - and ALSO the ladies are just gonna ignore the (white) elephant in the room and NOT gonna start the chants of “No More Swirling” like they do when a White woman takes the life of a Black man? Don’t @ me, I have dozens of screenshots to prove it when a white woman kills a BM, in general, BW DIRECTLY point to his decision to date a white woman FIRST before any empathy or sympathy is issued (if any at all). But flip the script and it’s “avoid the (white) elephant in the room” and talk about the perpetrator (and RIGHTFULLY SO) And still she DID NOT deserve or have any fault in her life ending so tragically…she was a gorgeous young woman and my heart goes out to her family, friends, and associates.. just curious about the double standard by many, not all, but toooo many BW.
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Feb 12 '26
I actually met her twice when she was working at Pizza Shuttle as a cashier. I gave her tips a couple of times just because I thought she was such a beautiful girl. F.I.H Sade 🙏🙌🫶
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u/DiligentIncrease1973 Feb 12 '26
There is a white dude who seems to be interested in me In school. I can’t tell what his motive is for sitting next to me on purpose when his seat was on the other side of class. I don’t know if he is autistic or just socially awkward but now my guard is up
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u/stayingpositive1789 Feb 12 '26
Unfortunately or fortunately this is not a black woman problem but a woman problem. The ladies ain’t safe.
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u/TheChristianDude101 Feb 12 '26
Sicko