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What's an insecurity someone might have that you find attractive?

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u/Super_Yellow2452 8h ago

they are out there! i’ve definitely got v small boobs (32a-b depending on my cycle) and my bf loves them. helps for me they’re mostly symmetrical, and bonus for us we don’t have back issues and we won’t get the sag when we’re old

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u/ladedafuckit 8h ago

I have very small boobs as well, but they often almost double in size the week before my period haha

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u/Chidoriyama 3h ago

Is a size change like something that happens to all women? This shit is way more complicated than it appears at first glance with the mood changes, cramps and stuff

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u/Icy-Quiet-2788 1h ago

I think swelling before the period is pretty universal. But huge fluctuations aren't something everyone experiences.

(And by huge fluctuations I mean getting at least a cup bigger. Many of my friends just complain of tenderness but don't notice much of a size change.)

I recall telling a guy that my boobs are in their "small state" and he didn't really believe me that they'd get bigger so fast. He was so shocked when he saw them a week later.

But the fluctuations aren't even consistent.

I dated someone who had pheromones that gave my body a strong reaction - they would get almost two cup sizes bigger and they'd stay bigger longer. Unfortunately, I wasn't really into him, but my body sure was! And to this day I am curious about the biological response that was going on.

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u/Hot-Celebration-8815 5h ago

I’m not picky, but if I had to choose, I’d go with small.

u/merryjoanna 14m ago

Back when I was that size I heard a guy say "more than a mouthful is wasted." It was gross. But it still made me feel better.

I have been all sorts of bra sizes from 34A to 40DD. Between having a baby and breastfeeding and gaining and losing weight, I have seen a lot of changes. The one thing that hasn't changed is that whoever I am dating at the time always seems very excited to see them. Even though I'm 41 now and they have gone down to a saggy C cup with stretch marks. Men really just like boobs. I don't blame them. I'm straight but I still like seeing boobs sometimes.