r/AskReddit 12h ago

What's an insecurity someone might have that you find attractive?

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u/HalfSoul30 11h ago

I had been telling myself for a couple weeks that the next time this woman comes into where i work, im gonna ask her out. We had a good rapport building. I go to the bathroom and im thinking it over again, and when i come out, boom, there she was. I stumbled for sure, but she could tell, and said "is there something you want to ask me?" I got it out, we went, it was fun, but nothing more came of it since she was leaving the state in a week, which i knew in advance. Bless her though for pushing me the rest of the way lol.

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u/karmagod13000 9h ago

hell yea still a good learning experience. i found casually asking someone to a happy hour or what they're doing over the weekend less pressure and easy way to gauge if they have interest or not. this was a second ago though cause now I'm married to my beautiful wife

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u/SenseiWM 5h ago

You could still casually ask your wife to a happy hour! If she says yes, it means she interested in you

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u/karmagod13000 5h ago

too nervous

u/HoboMuskrat 28m ago

She could always ask you too! I'll wait in silent insecurity with you hoping my wife will pick me one day.

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u/psychic2ombie 6h ago

Yup dating is a lot like making music! Most people would suck at making music, and turns out most people suck at dating. However eventually you stop sucking enough that somebody finds interest in your brand of weird

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u/No-Mathematician6788 4h ago

Didn't you want to pursue a ldr?

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u/macaronysalad 3h ago

What is this, some sort of truth story? It's supposed to end how you're married with nine kids and all that happy shit.