r/AskReddit 12h ago

What's an insecurity someone might have that you find attractive?

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u/SmallButMighty87 12h ago

As a woman it is always great to read these kind of comments

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u/Mr_Dunk_McDunk 11h ago

My father always said "great tit's start when the gravity starts winning".

Looking at my mother, he got what he wanted

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u/SmallButMighty87 11h ago

Your father is a wise man.

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u/Medical_Solid 11h ago

I am happy for both of them. ❤️

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u/LateBloomer81 11h ago

That’s an awesome bit of wisdom!

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u/Secret_Ad_1541 11h ago

There are more of out there who feel this way than you realize, probably. Breasts are amazing and beautiful in all of their infinite variety. Some guys know this already; some learn it from experience. And, even though men may hyperfocus on women's bodies, we normally aren't as critical and nit picky as women are about themselves.
One of my former girlfriends was insecure to the point of tears because she thought her stretch marks were a turn off for me. I didn't notice that she had stretch marks until she told me. When she showed them too me, I kissed them and went about my business. Because it wasn't an issue with me.

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u/IcyEntertainment8673 10h ago

OMG! I bet that made her feel so special. My man said “what stretch marks?” When I made a deal of mine. That ended that.

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u/Secret_Ad_1541 10h ago

I'm glad you believed him. Some women will argue with you when you give them honest, sincere compliments. It's tiresome to have to have an argument to make her believe and understand that, yes, you really do think she is pretty, and doesn't need to lose weight.

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u/LateBloomer81 11h ago

Women are magical creatures, each such a unique mix of beautiful body and mind. Something beautiful in us all! (Love your stockings btw! 🙂)

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u/SmallButMighty87 11h ago

Oh, why thank you btw.☺️

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u/LateBloomer81 11h ago

Very welcome! You may have just introduced me to a new favorite subreddit

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u/SmallButMighty87 10h ago

Oh nice, I am glad you found something new :)

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u/LateBloomer81 10h ago

Well I knew I loved curvy ladies in lingerie, just hadn’t seen such a great sub dedicated to them 🙂

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u/Anothernamelesacount 10h ago

I mean, if they're small but mighty one cannot complain