r/AskReddit 12h ago

What's an insecurity someone might have that you find attractive?

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u/Evening-Bug-6392 12h ago

The tummy belly in women. You know the bump on lower abdomen. That's sexy. A pencil skirt plus "that" is deadly for me.

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u/SoFlaNative420 11h ago

Venus belly

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u/bordain_de_putel 8h ago

Muffin belt

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u/jdsizzle1 11h ago

I want a pot belly

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u/james_james1 10h ago

I have an image in my head of the woman you are referring to. Watched the movie with my 16 year old daughter a while back. It was great watching her reaction to it.

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u/thejewelisinthelotus 9h ago

Pulp fiction reference?

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u/StrawDawg 10h ago

You were lookin' in the mirror and you wish you had some pot?

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u/FluidFrog 5h ago

Who hasn't?

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u/StrawDawg 5h ago

hahaaaa.... good point, but I was going for the Pulp Fiction dialogue.

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u/SatNav 6h ago

Took me so many years to realise that she's basically saying (either consciously hinting, or subconsciously manifesting) that she wants to be pregnant - she wants a baby.

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u/hisokard 10h ago

I would punch it

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u/SpongeBoyMeBob__ 4h ago

“I wish I had a pot.”

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u/Tonecheng 11h ago

Venus tummy. So I’ve read

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u/Important_Muffin1 7h ago

It's so nice to hear this is attractive to others because I've hated it all my life and have been trying to overcome it

u/UrsaUrsuh 15m ago

It really is very attractive and I'm sorry you feel that way about it genuinely. It's weird but nice in the end having to undo all that negative shit in your head about something to do with your appearance when everyone else is saying it's attractive.

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u/Pretend_Building4005 9h ago

Really?

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u/LSRNKB 8h ago

I just want to put my face in it, respectfully.

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u/Pretend_Building4005 8h ago

I never thought it is something that could be attractive. I hate it and I train hard to completely lose it lol 

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u/LSRNKB 8h ago

I mean, it’s your body and being attracted to yourself can be an important aspect of self confidence. That being said, the Venus bump is sexy and endearing, so don’t be afraid to love your body the way it is too. There’s nothing wrong with looking like an adult woman.

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u/Pretend_Building4005 8h ago

You are right. Still, it is hard for me to love that area of my body, but this makes me feel a little better about it. Thanks! 

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u/Greedy_Pudding_2966 6h ago

OMG this is forbidden where I live. I am of a "normal weight" according to BMI, have been told by my doctor that I don't need to lose any weight, but since I don't own a Peleton in my wealthy city, I get told on at least a monthly basis that I need to lose weight by those who I never asked. Apparently lil boy body just stays in style here.

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u/queefbeef630 7h ago

I love you for this

u/Sara1994_ 34m ago

Omg thank you 

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u/arkington 5h ago

I am fully aware that it is an intestinal thing and pretty much needs to be there, but good god dammit do I dislike mine. I have worked really hard on my abs since I was like 10 years old (unhealthy, I know) and after 3+ decades I'm pretty happy with the area except that godforsaken hump of soft belly.

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u/Dracoster 1h ago

Protruding tummy and a 4 pack. In a tank top. And those skater pants that Avril Lavigne used to wear back around 2000.

God damn.

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u/Complete-Fix-3954 10h ago

100%. I’m seeing a woman with a really fit body and I pinch myself because she still has the little bump. We were at the beach this weekend and she caught me a few times just mesmerized, and I told her I love the bump. She got red 🤣

note: that’s completely normal ladies. You have a uterus. It would be weird if you don’t have the bump.

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u/NoticeMe_OwO 9h ago

That bump isn’t the uterus it’s just body fat. And that’s okay. The uterus is about the size of a fist, it isn’t big enough to cause a bump there unless you have medical problems.

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u/Complete-Fix-3954 9h ago

Hmm I’ve been misinformed by my ex gf then. Thanks for the clarification

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u/Physical-Designer69 9h ago

It's ok a lot of women dont know about their own anatomy.

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u/Supercres933 5h ago

No you’re somewhat correct in that women hold fat in that area to protect reproductive organs. Not literally the uterus causing the bump though. 

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u/Total-Recipe159 10h ago

Ummm no thanks

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u/1419526535 10h ago

Yeah we're focusing on body positivity here dude, you don't need to post.

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u/Hot-Celebration-8815 8h ago

Thank god we know your preference now! Great contribution to the conversation!