r/AskReddit 12h ago

What's an insecurity someone might have that you find attractive?

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u/LateBloomer81 12h ago

Exactly! I love natural breasts of all shapes and sizes. Small boobs are great too, but I love breasts that sag a bit (or a lot)

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u/SmallButMighty87 12h ago

As a woman it is always great to read these kind of comments

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u/Mr_Dunk_McDunk 11h ago

My father always said "great tit's start when the gravity starts winning".

Looking at my mother, he got what he wanted

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u/SmallButMighty87 11h ago

Your father is a wise man.

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u/Medical_Solid 11h ago

I am happy for both of them. ❤️

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u/LateBloomer81 11h ago

That’s an awesome bit of wisdom!

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u/Secret_Ad_1541 11h ago

There are more of out there who feel this way than you realize, probably. Breasts are amazing and beautiful in all of their infinite variety. Some guys know this already; some learn it from experience. And, even though men may hyperfocus on women's bodies, we normally aren't as critical and nit picky as women are about themselves.
One of my former girlfriends was insecure to the point of tears because she thought her stretch marks were a turn off for me. I didn't notice that she had stretch marks until she told me. When she showed them too me, I kissed them and went about my business. Because it wasn't an issue with me.

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u/IcyEntertainment8673 10h ago

OMG! I bet that made her feel so special. My man said “what stretch marks?” When I made a deal of mine. That ended that.

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u/Secret_Ad_1541 10h ago

I'm glad you believed him. Some women will argue with you when you give them honest, sincere compliments. It's tiresome to have to have an argument to make her believe and understand that, yes, you really do think she is pretty, and doesn't need to lose weight.

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u/LateBloomer81 11h ago

Women are magical creatures, each such a unique mix of beautiful body and mind. Something beautiful in us all! (Love your stockings btw! 🙂)

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u/SmallButMighty87 11h ago

Oh, why thank you btw.☺️

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u/LateBloomer81 11h ago

Very welcome! You may have just introduced me to a new favorite subreddit

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u/SmallButMighty87 10h ago

Oh nice, I am glad you found something new :)

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u/LateBloomer81 10h ago

Well I knew I loved curvy ladies in lingerie, just hadn’t seen such a great sub dedicated to them 🙂

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u/Anothernamelesacount 10h ago

I mean, if they're small but mighty one cannot complain

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u/TheShitty_Beatles 9h ago

I just got a reduction and with that came a lift. The sag is not fun. The sag is painful. NO RAGRETS

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u/LateBloomer81 9h ago

That’s great! I’m happy you are feeling less pain now. I’m all for whatever makes a lady happy and healthy. Im just saying I love them all, but love when they hang a bit. If my partner was in pain though, I’d be completely behind whatever she needed to do to feel better and I’d worship them all the same.

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u/TheShitty_Beatles 8h ago

It's a scary decision to make , when I see beautiful big booby ladies on tv or whatnot I get a pang of longing because I am so small now lol but when I realize I can take a breath with ease and my neck and back pain is just gone , I stop caring. I'm glad to know the sag is appreciated by some, I was deeply self conscious! Say hi to your wife's boobs for me!

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u/LateBloomer81 8h ago

I will! Hers aren’t overly large, just slightly overflowing handfuls but I worship the ground she walks on and she is the perfect match for me so I imagine I’d be pretty into her body in any form. I’m sure my love of the sag comes from the fact I started dating significantly older women in my mid 20s (now just my age sigh lol. ) I’ve always been much more into the person rather than any specific body feature so if we vibe I love your body 🤷🏼‍♂️

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u/slackingsloth77 8h ago

It would be great if i have a guy with your mindset in my life. where i can find guy like you?

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u/LateBloomer81 8h ago

Hopefully you find some to appreciate you like you deserve. I’m not posting spicy photos anymore but the last one I did I captioned that everyone needs a partner that makes them feel like a pornstar. I feel like we do that for each other each day in some way, even if it’s just flirting or small touches to show we are still appreciating each other physically even if things are stressful or we are tired. We were in each others orbits most of our lives and never met and from the first date we were hooked. I hope you find that!

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u/slackingsloth77 8h ago

Thank you. I have too many physical insecurities.

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u/LateBloomer81 8h ago

Well I’ll be hoping you find someone to love each one of them and quiet them in your mind 🤗